Have you worked hard, are you really trying your best?

There was a particularly popular saying on the Internet for a while: "What you bask in means what you lack."

the truth is so cruel.

In fact, many people around us are obsessed with showing their efforts, posting cards in the community, and actively being a soy sauce man in various night training camps. Because you just look hard, you care so much about the sun.

with this truth, go and see your circle of friends again.

if a friend who loves shopping says, "I've been busy all night trying to catch up on the paperwork, so tired." But the truth may be that she went shopping with her boyfriend after work, had dinner and watched a movie, and when she got home, it was late at night before she remembered to write a copy.

If a procrastinator says, "I failed the workplace exam again, why do you treat me so harshly when I study so hard?" But the truth may be that she brushed watercress and Weibo day after day, and it was not until a week before the exam that she hastily picked up the book and gulped it down.

If a person with the property of learning crisp says, "I spent a semester in the library studying hard, but it didn't work, and the scholarship was still unavailable." But the truth of the matter is that he did immerse himself in reading in the library, but he just turned over every novel of Higashino Guigu, which has nothing to do with professional courses.

since you are working so hard, what are you working so hard for?

since you just seem to be working hard, why are you trying to deceive yourself?

Today, every woman is clamoring for "thin or die". Miss Slow is definitely the most beautiful victory on the road to losing weight. She is 164 cm tall, and it took three months to reduce her weight from 65 kg to 48 kg, and she has maintained this achievement for three years.

Many friends may be dismissive of this. After all, some people are born with good luck and easy to lose weight, while others will raise their chin and drink.

But I'll tell you that she didn't send a big wish in the circle of friends, nor did she send a chicken blood punch card in the forum. She just strictly followed the plan to exercise every day and ate less. Day after day, she sweated on the treadmill in countless moments when you were feasting. When you were shopping for fun, she was riding an Dongan bike. When you couldn't help drinking and gossiping, she was always carrying her own food in her hand. Do you envy her waist, hips and slender arms, but I don't know that she dare not stop exercising even if she works overtime late?

There's my favorite self-media V. At first, I thought it was easy for them to update every article. It was nothing more than finding some hot articles on the Internet, then contacting the authorization, and then finding some suitable pictures for typesetting. The original coffee was a little tired, because I had to update an article every day, but there were few updated contents! Therefore, I have always been impressed that the self-media is like an organ in the network, chatting and drinking tea, and waiting for advertising revenue in the rest of the time.

After I really got in touch with the media, I joined various groups and got to know a lot of people, only to find out that the truth is that many people suffer from dry eyes and cervical pain every day, get up earlier than chickens and go to bed later than chickens. At night after work, when you are tired, you are thinking about choosing a topic when you are eating and drinking water, and you are lying under the covers and brushing your contents beautifully. He stays up late to update the next day. That's how you get the originality of a daily article.

There are peers around you who have been promoted early, which often makes people look envious and jealous. The truth is not as dark and unfair as you think. Every minute of your relaxation in front of others comes from your behind-the-scenes efforts.

to say the least, your efforts are your business, and what you are trying to achieve is yourself. Your 1% efforts have nothing to do with 1% people.

The company where I used to work once recruited two girls at the same time. A was very serious and took care of those trivial things day after day. She was always the first to arrive at the company every day, and of course she left late. She is not only simple and diligent, but also a kind-hearted girl. She treats people with kindness and is especially helpful, so that there are always colleagues who like to push the task to her. I have never heard a complaint in her mouth, and I have never heard her say no behind others' backs.

Her desk is covered with inspirational slogans such as "Give yourself a smile every day" and "See the rainbow only after the storm". Although these slogans sound vulgar and rustic, she believes these words very much and resolutely proves that these chicken soups for the soul are worthy of the absolute charm of being believed.

B is cute and coquettish, and she brushes Taobao if she has nothing to do. If the leader doesn't explicitly instruct her what to do, there is nothing to do in her eyes.

A later went to the business department with the best welfare, and B, who stayed in the storage and transportation department, refreshed Weibo four or five times an hour, complaining that his efforts were out of proportion to his efforts, and his efforts could not resist good luck.

In fact, even if you are mentally labeled with "hard-working" personality and "I am desperate when others waste time", it's a pity that your physical fitness doesn't match your mental fitness, so don't blame the fact that you are covered up in a lot of people who really work hard.

since it's for yourself, please screen out all guilty behaviors of "basking in" efforts. You should know that efforts are a very deep thing, and flaunting efforts without bowing your head is the worst attitude.

Because people who really try to prove themselves have no time to work hard!