Middle school students' 300-word composition (as many as needed)

Our school should also write.

A child ran out of the house out of anger at his mother and shouted at the valley, "I hate you, I hate you." Then there was an echo from the valley: "I hate you-I hate you-"The child was a little surprised and came back to tell his mother that a despicable child in the valley said he hated me. Mother took him back to the hillside and asked him to shout "I love you, I love you". The child did as his mother said, but this time he found a very good child shouting at him in the valley: "I love you-I love you-"

The north wall of the school playground is covered with creepers. My family also has Parthenocissus tricuspidata, which climbs up from the west wall of the yard and occupies a large area on the roof.

The leaves just grown by Parthenocissus tricuspidata are bright red. A few days later, when the leaves grow up, they turn bright green. The young leaves of Parthenocissus tricuspidata are not obvious, but the long leaves are obvious. Then the leaves are so fresh and green that they look very comfortable. The tips of the leaves are facing down and evenly spread on the wall, without overlapping and leaving gaps. When a gust of wind blows, the leaves on one wall ripple and look beautiful.

When Parthenocissus tricuspidata's footsteps hit the wall, the heads of six or seven filaments turned into small disks, blocking the wall. The filament used to be straight, but now it is bent. Pull the tender stem of Parthenocissus tricuspidata to make it close to the wall. Parthenocissus tricuspidata one step at a time. If you look at those tiny feet carefully, you will think of the dragon's claws in the picture.

Sweet and salty life

Eating as a child is "sweet and salty".

Drink tea and coffee, a small cup, but three tablespoons of condensed milk; Cook red bean soup and mung bean soup, and pour a spoonful of sugar into it without thinking.

Every bite is like pouring liquid sugar into your throat.

When eating, no matter what you see, you should pour a circle of soy sauce on it like a salute. Sometimes, it's not enough. Soy sauce is mixed with a pinch of salt.

Every bite seems to be chewing the salty salt that makes the taste buds tremble.

Sweet, sour, salty and spicy, giving full play to the spirit of the "death squad".

For people, it's all the same: great love and great hate. If you like it in your heart, you feel that the other person is perfect and impeccable; I hate it in my heart. I feel that the shortcomings of the other party are a dime a dozen and useless. In those young days, I don't want to hide the feeling of "self-righteousness", and I often "accidentally hurt my good man" unconsciously.

Slowly, people reach middle age.

Health awareness is improved, and diet tastes change. Greatly reduce the intake of sugar and salt, and take "slightly sweet" and "slightly salty" as the standard for cooking food. I used to hate those sweet and unclear foods, such as sweet and sour pork, mango duck, chicken with honey sauce and so on. Now, however, I have not only accepted it, but also come to like it-there is salt in sweetness and sweetness in saltiness, which is a portrayal of life!

Great love and great hatred should only belong to the stage. Real life should be more tolerant and have more room to turn around. Although I am far from reaching the realm of "no resentment, no anger and no hate", at least I understand that there is a "golden mean" between "great love" and "great hate".

I am willing to continue to sincerely accept the teachings of the years.

Sweet and salty life

Eating as a child is "sweet and salty".

Drink tea and coffee, a small cup, but three tablespoons of condensed milk; Cook red bean soup and mung bean soup, and pour a spoonful of sugar into it without thinking.

Every bite is like pouring liquid sugar into your throat.

When eating, no matter what you see, you should pour a circle of soy sauce on it like a salute. Sometimes, it's not enough. Soy sauce is mixed with a pinch of salt.

Every bite seems to be chewing the salty salt that makes the taste buds tremble.

Sweet, sour, salty and spicy, giving full play to the spirit of the "death squad".

For people, it's all the same: great love and great hate. If you like it in your heart, you feel that the other person is perfect and impeccable; I hate it in my heart. I feel that the shortcomings of the other party are a dime a dozen and useless. In those young days, I don't want to hide the feeling of "self-righteousness", and I often "accidentally hurt my good man" unconsciously.

Slowly, people reach middle age.

Health awareness is improved, and diet tastes change. Greatly reduce the intake of sugar and salt, and take "slightly sweet" and "slightly salty" as the standard for cooking food. I used to hate those sweet and unclear foods, such as sweet and sour pork, mango duck, chicken with honey sauce and so on. Now, however, I have not only accepted it, but also come to like it-there is salt in sweetness and sweetness in saltiness, which is a portrayal of life!

Great love and great hatred should only belong to the stage. Real life should be more tolerant and have more room to turn around. Although I am far from reaching the realm of "no resentment, no anger and no hate", at least I understand that there is a "golden mean" between "great love" and "great hate".

I am willing to continue to sincerely accept the teachings of the years.

(1) 20065438+0 July 8 Sunday weather: sunny.

Today is the second day of winter vacation. In order to do a good job in winter vacation homework and have a good time, I finished the winter vacation garden in one fell swoop, and the big stone in my heart finally fell, so I can finally relax! I breathed a sigh of relief happily and went to "report good news" to my parents. I thought my parents would be happy for me, but my father said coldly and sternly, "What's the use of doing it so soon?" Are all these assignments assigned to you by the teacher and you can finish them in a day or two? Then how can we master the knowledge of summer vacation and review the knowledge of last semester? "After listening to this, I think what my father said is very reasonable. Hey! If I had known this, I wouldn't have done it, but what can I do now? In a word, I will never be so "stupid" as this time!

(2) Weather at 5438+0 on Monday, July 9, 2006: sunny.

Today, I had a dream.

I dreamed that a ghost wanted to kill me, because he said that his brother was killed by me, so he went to that horrible place to kill me, but I didn't hurt anyone at all, so I told him the truth, and he not only refused to listen, but also showed his black-spotted fangs to bite me. I ran so fast that I was out of breath. ...

What bad luck to have nightmares! When I grow up, I must invent a medicine. People won't have nightmares after eating them.

The weather this Tuesday: sunny

At night, I was lying on the balcony watching the night scene, and the little star was blinking at me. Then I remembered a sentence from my neighbor, Grandma Wang: "There are more stars in the sky than people on the ground. If people on the ground die, the stars in the sky will fall from the sky and become stones. " I think, isn't grandma Wang talking about the little match girl in Andersen's fairy tale?

No matter what Grandma Wang said is true or not, when I grow up, I want to be an astronaut, fly into the universe by spaceship and explore its mysteries, which can be regarded as a love for aviation. I look forward to growing up quickly!

(4) 2001July1kloc-0/Wednesday weather: sunny.

Today, I read a fairy tale called "the touch of gold", which benefited a lot.

The story is about a king who loves money very much and hopes to have countless gold around him. So the king went to see the fairy himself and told him his wish that anything he touched would become gold. The fairy just smiled and readily agreed to his request The king was very happy. He ordered people to prepare a banquet. However, when he picked up a piece of bread, it turned into gold, but the king was still very happy. He didn't see that the bread had turned into gold, so he took a bite. Unexpectedly, the king's two front teeth were bitten off. From then on, the king never ate anything again and was finally starved to death.

In a rural area of America, there lived an old man who had three sons. Both the eldest son and the second son work in the city, the youngest son is with him, and the father and son live alone.

Suddenly one day, a man found the old man and said to him, "Dear old man, I want to take your little son to work in the city, can I?"

The old man said angrily, "no, absolutely not." Get out! "

This man said, "if I find a date for your son in the city, is it okay?"

The old man shook his head: "No, you go!"

The man added, "What if I find Rockefeller's daughter for your son, your future daughter-in-law?"

At this time, the old man was tempted.

A few days later, the man found Rockefeller, the richest oil magnate in America, and said to him, "Dear Mr. Rockefeller, I want to find someone for your daughter, can I?"

Rockefeller said, "Get out!"

The man added, "If the person I am looking for for your daughter, that is, your future son-in-law, is the vice president of the World Bank, is that all right?"

Rockefeller agreed.

A few days later, the man found the president of the World Bank and said to him, "Dear Mr. President, you should appoint a vice president at once!" " "

The president said: "impossible, there are so many vice presidents here, why should I appoint a vice president, and it must be done right away?"

"If the vice president you appointed is Rockefeller's son-in-law, is that okay?"

Of course, the president agreed.

Although this story is untrue and full of doubts, it reflects the power of communication to some extent. This story tells us that self-confidence is very important in communication. Only by knowing in your heart that it is good for both sides can you get the cooperation of the other side and achieve the success of communication. After realizing this, we must persevere and not be afraid of being rejected until we win the final victory. Communication is a big topic, which can't be explained clearly in a few words. Below, we use a few short stories to look at communication skills:

● The Princess's Moon

A little princess is ill. She told the king sweetly that if she could get the moon, she would get better. The king immediately called all the wise men in the country and asked them to find a way to seize the moon.

The Prime Minister said, "It is 35,000 miles away, bigger than the princess's room and made of molten copper."

The magician said, "It is 150,000 miles away and is made of green cheese, which is twice as big as the palace."

The mathematician said, "The moon is 30,000 miles away, round and flat like a coin, half the size of a kingdom, and still stuck in the sky. No one can win. "

Angry and angry, the king had to call the court clown to play the piano to relieve boredom. After asking everything, the clown came to a conclusion: if these learned people are right, then the size of the moon must be as big and as far as everyone thinks. Therefore, it is imperative to find out how big and far the moon is in the little princess's mind.

So the clown went to the princess's room to visit her and asked her, "How big is the moon?" "Probably smaller than my thumb nails! Because I can cover the moon with my thumb nails. " Said the princess.

"So how far is it?" "Not taller than that big tree outside the window! Because sometimes it gets stuck between the treetops. "

"What is it made of?" "Gold, of course!" The princess answered firmly.

Smaller than a thumb nail and shorter than a tree, the moon made of gold is of course easy to take! The clown immediately found a goldsmith to make a small moon, put on a gold chain and gave it to the princess as a necklace. The princess was very happy and recovered the next day.

Note: People pay less attention to the real needs of customers and do things according to their own wishes. As a result, no matter how hard they try, the effect is always bad. Communication is the best way to master customer psychology. In addition, it is also important to choose the content of communication. Only when the content of communication is selected can it be to the point, concise and efficient.

● Ability to cope with change.

Birds get together to elect their king. Peacock said it was the most beautiful and should be photographed by it, which immediately won the approval of all the birds. Only the cave bird said disapprovingly, "When you rule the bird country, if an eagle comes after us, how can you save us?" Peacock was speechless.

Note: Before communication, you should be fully prepared, think of any questions that the other party may raise, and formulate coping strategies, otherwise it will be difficult to convince others to accept their own views.

● Parrot

A man went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of it: This parrot can speak two languages, 200 yuan. In front of another parrot, it was written: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan. Which one should I buy? Both are shiny, very flexible and lovely. The man turned and couldn't make up his mind. Suddenly I found a parrot with a tooth missing. Its fur is dim and messy, but its price is 800 yuan. The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages? The shopkeeper said, no, this man is strange: old, ugly and incompetent. Why is it worth this number? The shopkeeper replied: because the other two parrots call this parrot boss.

Note: Only by finding the right communication partner can we communicate successfully, otherwise it is useless to try again. For example, selling a product, no matter how happy you talk to the receptionist, it may be difficult to sell the product to the company. Only by finding effective communication partners and people who can make decisions is the shortcut to communication.

● Business in Maggie Cheung.

In a movie, Maggie Cheung plays an insurance salesman. After finally meeting the target customer, the other party gave her a coin, saying it was for her to use on her way home. At that time, she was very angry. At the moment when she turned her head to leave, she saw a child's head hanging in the client's office, so she bowed deeply to that end and said, "I'm sorry, I can't help you." The customer was surprised and asked what was going on, and the first business was negotiated. It turns out that this client loves his son most, so he hangs his son's paintings in the office and looks at them every day.

Note: the starting point of communication is very important. This requires us to collect enough information to understand what the other party cares about and eliminate their resistance, so as to mobilize the other party's participation and increase the probability of successful communication.

● Scholars buy materials.

A scholar went to buy materials. He said to the seller, "Come here!" The seller doesn't know the word "the person who pays the salary" (the person who takes the materials), but he knows the word "come here", so he puts the materials in front of the scholar. The scholar asked him, "What is the price?" The seller didn't quite understand this sentence, but he knew the word "price" and told the scholar the price. The scholar went on to say, "The exterior is solid and the interior is weak. More smoke, less flame. Please damage it. Your wood is dry on the outside, but wet on the inside. When it burns, there will be more smoke and less flame. Please lower the price. The seller didn't understand the scholar's words and left with the materials.

Note: communication in a language that the other party can understand is the guarantee of successful communication. If a salesperson explains the benefits of products to consumers from a technical point of view, I don't think the effect will be good.

● The story of selling combs

There is a unit recruiting salesmen. Because the company pays well, many people interview. In order to test everyone, the manager came up with a topic: let them spend a day selling combs and sell them to monks. Many people say this is impossible. Monks have no hair. How much are they? So many people gave up this opportunity. But three people are willing to try. On the third day, they came back.

The first man sold a 1 comb. He said to the manager, "I saw a young monk with a lot of lice on his head, which was itchy. I scratched it with my hands." I lied to him about scratching my head with a comb and sold one. "

The second man sold 10 combs. He said to the manager, "I found the host in the temple and told him that it would be a sin of disrespect to the Buddha if the hair of the person who went up to worship the Buddha was messed up by the mountain wind." If you put a comb in front of each Buddha statue, it would be better for tourists to comb their hair before worshipping Buddha! " So I sold the 10 comb. "

The third man sold 3000 combs! He said to the manager, "I went to the biggest temple and told the abbot directly whether I want to increase my income?" The abbot said yes. I asked him to put up a slogan in the most prosperous place of the temple and donate money to receive gifts. What gift? A comb. This comb has one feature. Be sure to comb your hair in a crowded place, so as to comb away bad luck and get good luck. So many people comb their hair after donating and let many people donate. Sold 3000 at once. "

Note: when communicating, you should find the other party's needs and solve them. Only by increasing each other's value can we achieve our expectations.

● Key

There is a strong lock hanging on the gate, and an iron bar took a lot of effort, but it still can't be pried open. The key came and his thin body got into the lock hole. With a slight turn, the big lock opened with a bang.

Die-hard asked strangely, "Why can't I open it after all my efforts, but you open it easily?"

The key said, "Because I know his heart best."

Explanation: everyone's heart is like a locked door, and no matter how thick the iron bar is, it can't be pried open. Only by caring can we turn ourselves into a delicate key, enter other people's hearts and understand others. Therefore, when communicating, we must think more about each other, move people with feelings, and change hearts with hearts.

We communicate many times every day, but have you noticed the effect of communication? Through the sharing of the above stories, I believe you should know something about communication skills. Finally, let's sort out the communication points:

Recognize the benefits of communication, which is the only way to solve the problem.

Make full preparations before communication, including finding the right subject, communication object, time and environment.

◆ Finding the right time and breakthrough point of communication will get twice the result with half the effort.

◆ People who know how to listen will win the respect of each other.

◆ Only by solving other people's problems first and increasing each other's value can we increase the participation of others and achieve the purpose of communication.

◆ Communicate in a language that the other party can understand.

When communicating, confidence is very important. Only when you are confident can your speech be rational and powerful.

Stories about communication-

There are thousands of ways to communicate. The concept is dead, but vivid stories, especially those that fail to communicate, will make us grow up in embarrassment if we carefully taste them.

Inferiority is at work

There used to be a general manager in the subordinate company I managed. The company is in chaos and I don't know where to start. The relationship between companies is also tense; Working in a different place, the young and old who are in urgent need of care are thousands of miles away, and it is very hard to take care of them in work and life. Physical fatigue can be described, but mental fatigue cannot be explained. He has been in office for almost two years, and his work has not improved. Employees have a lot of opinions, their level is not good, and their superiors rarely appreciate them. A person's taste is bitter.

We had a frank exchange of views. He wanted to think, want to know where the problem is; I told him that the problem is that it is difficult for him to communicate with people around him, and some frictions can be avoided through communication. He also wants to communicate with others, but others are unwilling; In fact, it is the internal factors that play a decisive role to see if there is a willingness to communicate with others. He admits that he is not very good at talking and can't say what he wants; In fact, communication is not a question of speaking skills, but first of all, you should jump out of the box of yourself and become a social person, consider the problem from the other side's point of view, and understand what the person you want to communicate is thinking and caring about. He said that there are fewer people who think about it at ordinary times and have not moved their minds in this regard; In fact, caring for others is the embodiment of a person's basic quality. There is no one else in my heart, how to figure out what the other person is thinking! He is sure that he is a foreigner and has never looked down on anyone in his heart; It doesn't matter if you don't look down on yourself. Sometimes inferiority is more related to ignoring the needs of others. He was surprised that he seldom showed feelings of inferiority. How could he give me insight? In fact, managers should pay more attention to developing themselves and thinking about themselves so as to observe the world. Communication is, in the final analysis, a question of being a man. The general manager finally woke up, but he woke up late. He has reached the age of no doubt, and some principles of being a man have been basically finalized. For a company and a manager, the market opportunities are limited. He agreed to my suggestion that he should not be the general manager. Indeed, his inferiority complex in his bones hindered many things.

Chivalry prevails.

Another general manager, no matter from which angle, is a master of communication. Tsinghua University graduated and has many years of experience as a company manager. He is a northern man who likes to make friends and speaks with a cool energy. He took over a company and wanted to make some achievements. He did not consider the organization system of the whole station and the mobilization and encouragement of the people, but adopted the psychology of short-term speculation, betting on monthly sales, ignoring some basic technical problems. As a result, customers experienced negative growth for several months because of technical support problems. He is not worried about the confusion of financial management. The sales outlets didn't pay off their accounts for a year, and he didn't take it seriously. Instead, it gave blank checks to sales outlets around the country, which caused great difficulties to the management at that time and later. He is particularly obsessed with getting along with salesmen, often drinking together and speculating outside the words. Salesmen feel that their wages are low, so they are encouraged to open their own stalls and engage in business; What a salesman needs, as long as he has it, he can take it out. Some basic principles of "one set" operation disappeared in the chaos of tragedy.

He also has ways to communicate with his superiors, such as "Don't worry, Mr. Wang", "Give me some more time, Mr. Wang" and "I am confident to build the company well with a knowledgeable boss" and so on. If these words are any consolation, he will come with his mouth open. This is the first time, ok; When I said it the second time, I drummed in my heart: I said the same thing over and over again, but I didn't see any improvement in my work; Just agree with me in words, not in actions. I can tolerate it, employees can't tolerate it, and the market can't tolerate it. Later, I went into battle directly, and I had to go to the company before 8: 30 every day to arrange for an audit directly. If you work so hard, there will always be people who can't escape. In the past, one of his most trusted salesmen played a lot of tricks through management loopholes and could not pay the bill, so he had to flee in fear of sin. He didn't believe that the salesman ran away and killed him.

Common sense of life has repeatedly told us that the communication between fair-weather friends can't stand the wind and rain. As a long-term friend and confidant, heart-to-heart talk is not a temporary pleasure, but a recognition of some original things in life. They share their understanding of the world and their own thinking process, which can enhance their happiness with each other for a long time. These factors make you become bosom friends, and it is not enough to just have fun together. This manager has two simplifications. First, he simply regards people who are happy to drink together as available confidants. The second is to simply regard the communication between personal friends as the order of management.

There are some unchangeable principles in the management of the company, just like people need to breathe and eat when they are alive. If a company's managers deal with principles, they can only be bullied in the end. The general manager's triumphant communication style not only didn't bring any benefits to the company, but the salesman didn't buy his good, and he had long asserted that "the manager was using me." Since you can use him as the manager, it is logical for him to use you as the manager in turn. A company's top management is incompetent if it can't find suitable communication methods, implement the company's development goals and tasks in the hearts of every employee, establish an all-round responsibility system and give full play to the creativity of employees.

The general manager mistakenly thinks that buddy loyalty is a way to communicate with employees, but it is still a mixed word. He doesn't want to run the company well, and he lacks the minimum sense of responsibility and some of the most primitive things to be a man. Today's harsh market ecology and enterprise ecology do not accept such cowards.

Rumors kill people

Communication brings not only happiness, but also trouble, disgust and even hatred.

A company has experienced the bitter fruit of this kind of improper communication. There are active people who are keen on gossip. Zhang San said something about Li Si, and Li Si said something about Zhang San and Wang Wu. Subsequently, "saying three" became "Tao four" and even multiplied. To make matters worse, the managers of this department have intentionally or unintentionally joined this unhealthy trend and become the source of the wind (managers' words are bound to become the source of the wind). The order of the company is also disturbed by this kind of mutual communication and mutual harm. These employees may also feel the pleasure of communication when whispering to each other. Unfortunately, this is only temporary. When what they said about the third party was known by the third party, happiness turned into pain, and good friendship also turned into hatred. Any irresponsible whisper is burying your future. The most abundant spirit, in the face of catastrophe, can also dominate its own destiny and play the most high-spirited music; The poorest spirit, on the sunny road, will also throw its fate into others' mouths in an instant.

Machiavellian rule

The story of a company is also thought-provoking. It is normal that employees have opinions and can't solve their heart problems for a while, but the contradiction between several employee supervisors in this company lasts for a long time. These employees are not bad in nature, and they all work hard. What's the problem? I have been to this company several times and have a little idea. I called a meeting attended by the manager and several supervisors. At the meeting, I suggested that everyone speak freely, communicate more, and put themselves in each other's shoes first.

With this role change, everyone really gained a lot of new knowledge: the other side has unsatisfactory places, each has its own difficulties and hardships, and it is not easy for anyone. Later, things were particularly simple: a supervisor usually had more contact with the manager, only tried to complete the tasks assigned by the manager, and did not show enthusiasm for other things in his job; When the manager is away, she reads books, makes some personal phone calls and seldom communicates with other employees. As time went on, obstacles appeared. In fact, this supervisor is going through a very difficult life change some time ago. The child has just turned one year old, but he has to bear the pain of divorce. The pressure she is under is beyond ordinary people's imagination, and there is no friend in the company who can speak from the heart. This usually isolated supervisor was finally understood and cried excitedly. Others pass paper towels, hold hands and show concern through some small gestures. The seemingly indestructible ice layer melted in less than 1 hour of frank two-way communication. The fresh air is spreading, and everyone feels very happy. I then asked a question that stunned everyone: How did such a simple communication take so long?

Everyone has many arguments and draws the following points: I used to think too much about myself and rarely think from the other side's point of view; Less face-to-face communication and complicated problems; It is not enough to be responsible and challenge yourself, but to patronize and criticize others; Leaders may also like the following things, so the centripetal force may be stronger. This last one shocked me. In the past, feudal emperors often deliberately provoked mutual criticism from ministers in order to maintain their rule of being immune to corruption. Now some bureaucrats are not good at management, but they are particularly keen on regulating the relationship between subordinates, making each other stumble, but they feel that their relationship with him is iron. By some skills, make friends with people, get a kind of information, and adjust the business strategy at any time without principles. I've seen such people before. Is that a "political book"? /SPAN>。

(A) mentality

1, Valenda mentality

There is a "Valenda mentality" in psychology. Valenda is a famous American tightrope walker. In an important performance, he unfortunately slipped and died. His wife said afterwards, I know something must happen this time, because he always kept saying before he took office that this time is too important to fail. However, in every successful performance before, he only thought about the tightrope itself and ignored everything it might bring.

Later, people called the "Valenda mentality" to concentrate on doing their own thing without caring about the meaning of things and not suffering from loss.

A study by Stanford University in the United States also shows that the images in a person's brain will stimulate the nervous system as well as the actual situation. For example, when a golfer repeatedly tells himself "don't hit the ball into the water" before hitting the ball, the scene of "the ball falling into the water" often appears in his mind, and the result is often counterproductive. At this time, most of the balls will fall into the water.

This study confirms Valenda's mentality from the opposite side.

Tips: this is the law of things: if you pay too much attention to success or failure, the result will often fail. As long as you pay attention to the characteristics and laws of things and concentrate on doing it well, you will get unexpected results, so we often say: "mentality is the most important."

Sweet zongzi

At the Spring Festival dinner hosted by Singapore Literature and Art Association, I sat at the same table with Mr. Zhang Hui.

When eating shark fin, I was surprised to see him scoop up a spoonful of Chili sauce, pour it into a bowl and eat it with shark fin. Soon after, I got a roast chicken and saw him soak the whole chicken in Chili sauce, which was dripping into his mouth. When I was secretly frightened, I couldn't help thinking: When dessert Ma Tilu comes to the table later, I wonder if Mr. Zhang Hui will also scoop a spoonful of Chili sauce to eat?

Different family backgrounds often lead to different eating habits.