Actress Yang Rong: I was invaded by my uncle when I was 4 years old. I didn't say no. what do you think?

A deliberate violation is enough to destroy a child's life, but the sin of the child being violated is repeated. Children are the poorest victims, but every adult may become an accomplice to evil. Every kind of unreasonable evil is full of pus in the deepest part, and adults are deaf and blind. Children are simple and kind, but parents should not be perfunctory, especially after the infringed injury has occurred, parents' contempt is likely to become the last straw to crush children!

Yang Rong, an artist, collapsed many times in Detective Star. Yang Rong played a role in the variety show. "Rong gatekeeper" is a girl taken in by her stepfather. To put it bluntly, "taking in" is just letting Rong waiter fall into the bottom of a bottomless pit. She was very young, but she was secretly imprisoned by her stepfather in a secret tunnel. She was also violated for two years! At this point, Yang Rong couldn't help blushing and sobbing. People who know Yang Rong may know that her resonance with these roles is not only due to her "deep devotion".

Bibi's fabricated version of "Rong Gatekeeper" is very weak. The objective fact is that she and the girl she plays have indeed experienced the same thing. It turned out that Yang Rong was sexually assaulted when she was 4 years old. The murderer who hurt her was not others, but happened to be her father's friend. She is called an old acquaintance of her uncle. When the early cases of child abuse occurred, Yang Rong bravely stood up and appealed to everyone to care about children with his real experience. As an adult, she still clearly remembers that horrible day when she was 4 years old.

In the same way, Guo Qilin once mentioned his experience of being "framed" in variety shows. Ten years later, Guo Qilin still clearly remembers every key moment of that day, and that fear has never been eliminated. Obviously, the infringement left an indelible injury in his heart. Lucky people use their childhood to cure their whole lives, while tragic people use their whole lives to cure their childhood. These children who suffered tragedies in their childhood, even if they grow up to have their own daily life, the injury has always been with them and has become the shadow of their lives.

Every case in which a child is violated represents a child's permanent psychological shadow. This kind of trauma is not easy to become shallow with the passage of time, but will be aggravated with the increase of understanding of development needs. As a child's back, parents' mentality is particularly important for children. Regrettably, the mentality of many parents makes the injured children ashamed to talk about it, feeling that they are not glamorous and humiliated for life. But what's wrong with children being violated? What is wrong is that these demons should go to hell!

I once read a question on the Zhihu: What did the parents do after the child was hurt? Many interviewees chose secret names to describe their parents' dereliction of duty when their children were hurt. One of the interviewees described the experience that one of his basin friends was invaded by his neighbor when he was in primary and secondary school. Penyou's parents knew about it, but said: This kind of thing can't go out, so there is no need to call the police. So far, the child has led a normal daily life. He is married and has two children. The respondent couldn't help asking his friend: Do you hate him? The reaction of my friends was unexpected: I hate my parents.

Children hate their parents for no reason. Because of the carelessness of parents and the lack of culture and education, the bad guys can take advantage of it; After the injury, parents could have taken action to reduce the injury, but their connivance made the injury increase endlessly. This kind of child who brings harm to children's growth not only hates their parents, but also falls into the whirlpool of self-disgust. They are more likely to become a frequent group of psychological diseases such as anxiety and depression, depression and post-traumatic acute stress disorder. The saddest thing is that they probably turned to their parents for help. After being hurt, they also released the signal that they had to help, but they were ignored by their parents again and again and didn't leave until late at night, young and helpless.

Understand that the devil who is determined to win may be next to the child. Children invade most abusers, usually people they know or trust. For every 65,438+00 children who are violated, 8 will be betrayed by people they trust. Therefore, in daily life, parents don't have to think that they have carried out extremely comprehensive maintenance for their children. Usually, the most inconspicuous key point around them may be the most deadly risk. The missing enlightenment education must be made up for the children as soon as possible.

Enlightenment education is not a sense of shame. Because of carelessness, the child is lost and helpless in the injury, and there is no way to sue. This is really a sense of shame for everyone. Generally speaking, children's thoughts are not complicated. To put it bluntly, "taboo topic discussion" usually comes from everyone's avoidance. Many times, when we talk frankly, we will find that there is nothing remarkable at all. I hope all the bad guys can be caught and brought to justice, and I hope every child can be free from harm and grow up freely and healthily in the sun! what do you think?