1000 words of thoughts after reading San Mao’s works

Sanmao talked about the beauty of marriage in her interview in "My Writing Life" and advised young friends to enter the palace of marriage and enjoy the happiness that marriage brings! Her life with Jose was, as she said, the most important six years of her life. I appreciate that Sanmao values ??life more than literature. She told how He would stay up all night when she was writing at night because He could not sleep without holding her hand. For this reason, she did not write for ten months. , a true and sincere Sanmao, why did God let her lose Jose?

José’s departure has brought great pain and blow to Sanmao. Many people read Sanmao’s articles and think that wandering around is a kind of romance. This is wrong, just like Sanmao. As I said, if you are just for white clouds and green grass, you will not be able to wander around the world for a long time. Wandering is just for studying and living, or for forgetting and pursuing emotions! Home, a warm home embraced by loved ones, do you still need to wander?

Sanmao talked about how money, age, and knowledge would not be obstacles between two people. (What she wrote were all true documentary articles.) Her life in the African desert was very difficult. , only one mattress was placed in the center of the room during the wedding. She only had a few household items, but in this difficult and special environment, she still lived happily. This is her understanding of life after suffering again and again! Suffering and happiness are in our hearts, it depends on how you want to understand and experience them! I didn’t understand this when I was in my twenties!

Sanmao chose to leave silently, because she had lost too much and had too many memories that could not allow her deep love to endure a lonely life. Sanmao's night without Jose's hand. I guess it's always darker! There is more pain because you are not numb! At the moment of leaving, for Sanmao, it was not pain, but a kind of relief and more completeness!

It is a gift from God for people who truly love to come together. How many of the millions of people can get unforgettable and unforgettable love? Maybe one in 10,000 people will never meet the true love of her life! People who love each other deeply for a lifetime, their flesh and blood are incompatible. No one can leave the other. One comes to this world just to wait for the other to appear. This is a ratio of one in a billion.

Love your lover sincerely and without any conditions or interests, cherish the person you love, and give him the greatest freedom and the most care. The depth of love is the sea of ??our hearts. There should be no measure, no measure, no bottom!