If you want to stay married,

First of all, say something that will bring back good memories.

When two people are going to divorce, women can use those beautiful memories to save the marriage, to stimulate the man's heart, to awaken the two people's expectations for this marriage, and to remind their lovers not to forget their original intentions and never abandon their desire to grow old together.

When you are about to divorce, talk about the ups and downs and unforgettable things that two people experienced together. The true feelings buried in the bottom of my heart will not be forgotten, and I can't help but show them when I am separated. This will inevitably touch each other's hearts, arouse each other's beautiful feelings, reluctant to give up, and cherish this marriage.

Second, speak for the children.

Children are the emotional sustenance between husband and wife and the hope of the future. Having children will involve more relationships and more things, and divorce will not be so easy. If you have a child with a man, you should think more about the child, and the family can enjoy family happiness together.

Tell men more about children, how smart and cute children are, and how much they like their father. I hope his father will play with him and do his homework, so that children can tell him how much they need a good father. Everyone trembles at the thought of lovely children. How could he have the heart to leave his own flesh and blood and let the children suffer? Many couples get divorced. As long as they think about their children, they will stay married for them. No matter how hard it is, son.

Third, say that you sincerely admit your mistake.

Some men don't want to live because women are too strong. Women should know how to show weakness and how to shrink themselves, so as to be feminine. Sincerely apologize to the other party, frankly admit your mistakes, let the other party stop quarreling, stop the intensification of contradictions, and avoid the deterioration of relations or even a vicious circle.

If you sincerely admit your mistake, people who love you will forgive you. Be reasonable and tolerant. I believe that no one will continue to haggle with the person who apologizes, unless the other person does not feel your sincerity. Just don't make the same mistake in the future, or no one will believe you if you tell it again.

Fourth, say something that causes * * *

Two people are divorced, and their mood will not be much better. Don't say anything negative at this time, don't say anything irrelevant to the other party, and don't say anything that the other party is not interested in. In this way, the other party will become more and more annoyed and think that you are deliberately avoiding the key points. Of course, the result is that you don't want to listen to you.

You'd better say something that will make the other person sing. For example, talk about your hobbies, happy places you have been to together, songs you have sung together, games you have played together ... because you both like what you have said, there are so many songs and there have been so many sparks of love. If you say this, you will dilute the unhappiness in your marriage, and the other party will think of your goodness. How could you leave?

5. Keep your word.

You can't just talk but don't practice, no matter how much your words impress the other party, but it won't be long before you find that you still repeat the same mistakes and don't change, so the other party will still be disappointed and feel that the language is superficial and hypocritical. It's meaningless to say so much but not do it.

The other person wants to leave you, but you don't meet their needs. Talk as little as possible, say whatever you want, and cash it in with practical actions, so that the other person feels that your love is not fleeting, but can go deep into a person's bone marrow and be of substantial help to life. You can do what you say, let the other person feel the temperature and power of love and save the marriage. What is there to worry about?