Why don't I have perseverance?

Psychologically speaking, perseverance belongs to the category of will. Perseverance, as a basic will quality, is also a psychological process and behavior that people overcome difficulties in order to achieve certain goals. There are two points to be clarified here: first, perseverance is manifested in the psychological process of overcoming difficulties; Second, overcoming difficulties is to achieve certain goals. Clarifying these two points is good for us to exercise perseverance.

So, how can we strengthen our perseverance?

The first is to strengthen the correct motivation. People's actions are dominated by motivation, and the germination of mobile machines stems from the satisfaction of needs. People who don't need anything or ask for nothing are never. Everyone has his own needs and pursuits; Just because of the different outlook on life, different people always regard different pursuits as their greatest satisfaction. Stalin said that great goals produce great perseverance. From Osterloh and Zhang Haidi, we can fully see how lofty life goals can effectively stimulate perseverance.

Second, starting from small things can exercise great perseverance. Li Siguang Xiang is famous for his tough and meticulous work, which is related to the fact that when he was young, he exercised himself to walk 0.8 meters every step. Dalton has never been afraid of difficulties all his life, and seems to have benefited a lot from his ability to cope with the weather every day for fifty years. Gorky said: "Even a little restraint on yourself will make people strong." Life has repeatedly shown that everyone can have perseverance, and everyone can exercise perseverance, and perseverance is accompanied by overcoming difficulties. The process of overcoming difficulties is also the process of cultivating and enhancing perseverance. People who are not very persistent can often overcome small difficulties, but they can't overcome big difficulties; But accumulating small victories and overcoming small difficulties can also make people persist in difficulties. You may not be able to carry 100 kg today, but you can carry 30 kg, that's all. As long as you choose every day and practice every month, one day, a hundred pounds of burden will be on your shoulders and you can walk as fast as a fly. Yun said with deep feelings: I am determined to use the art of gathering righteousness. I am an upright person, but I often struggle with small things. ..... Small places can't help but make mistakes, and big places will make mistakes. Small oppression and small temptation can win, and it is still a question whether big oppression and big temptation can win. If small things are not better than big things, isn't that self-deception? Better than the small one, and better than the big one. This so-called concentration is also. Otherwise, the collection is still empty talk. "

There are many small things, from which small things to start, some people go to bed late, you might as well get up with your eyes wide open; Some people take "what can be done today depends on tomorrow" as their motto. Some people want to doze off when they meet books, so they force themselves to read for an hour every day and don't sleep until they finish reading. As long as they force themselves to sit in front of books every day, habits will always form and perseverance will always appear. People need to start from themselves, because people are lazy. It takes perseverance to overcome inertia. Any inertia is interlinked, and any will action is born of * *. Things always complement each other. This is why you can cultivate great perseverance from an early age.

Third, cultivating interest can stimulate perseverance. Some people say that interest is the threshold of perseverance, which makes sense. Fables has a special interest in insects. He can observe insects under the tree for half a day. Ding Zhaozhong, the Nobel Prize winner, said that I often shut myself up in the laboratory day and night. Some people think I'm bitter, but it's just my interest. I feel "endless fun" and naturally have the perseverance to stick to it. Of course, people's interests can be divided into intuitive interests and intrinsic interests, but they can be converted. For example, some people are not interested in learning a foreign language, but he knows that learning a foreign language well is the need of the four modernizations. He is interested in this need, so he can force himself to keep learning a foreign language. In the process of learning, we can gradually cultivate his interest in foreign languages, and then further stimulate his perseverance in learning foreign languages. Once a person has an inherent and stable interest in a thing or a job, that desirable perseverance will unconsciously come to him, which is very natural.

Fourth, from easy to difficult, it can not only enhance confidence, but also exercise perseverance. Some people really want to finish one thing from beginning to end, but it is often too difficult to continue. For those who are not strong in perseverance, when determining their own goals and choosing to achieve them, we must adhere to the principle of proceeding from reality and making it easy first and then difficult. Comrade Xu Teli was over half a year old when he studied French, and others said he couldn't learn it. He said, let me try. He knew that he had a poor memory and was busy at work, so he began to set himself an "index" of remembering only one or two new words every day. The plan didn't go smoothly at first, and it was easy to realize. It looks a little slow, but it can cultivate self-confidence. A few months later, xu teacher not only completed the plan as scheduled, but also cultivated interest and confidence, and gradually mastered the "know-how" of learning French. He can remember three or four new words every day. Lao Xu's method is very dialectical. If you set too high a target at the beginning without holding hands, the plan may not be realized, and confidence will inevitably drop sharply. Even people who are usually persistent may back down at this time. American scholars Mitchell and Kodak said: "It is very important to start your daily work by completing some things, no matter how small these things are, they will give people a feeling of success." This feeling is undoubtedly conducive to the stimulation of perseverance. Kodak's words seem to inspire us to do other things. I wonder if everyone thinks so?