A complete collection of slogans of rural marriage heroes

In ancient times, marriage followed the rule of "parents' orders and matchmakers' words", so some young people didn't even know who the other party was before they got married, because they were all favored by their parents, and they could only accept it without resisting it. However, there is a saying among the people that "if you marry a woman who looks high, you won't marry a man who looks low", and people are convinced of it. What does this sentence mean?

Let's take a look at what an upward looking woman is. Generally speaking, a woman who looks up is the kind of woman who is full of domineering and holds her head high when walking and talking. What kind of existence do rural women look up to? If it is explained in more popular terms, it is a bitch and a shrew. People think that if such a woman marries a family, she is not allowed to keep the dog at home, which has caused many contradictions. It turns out that in ancient times, it was a society where men were superior to women. At that time, women's social status was not high, and they even advocated the concept that "a woman without talent is virtue". However, at that time, there were still many demands on women, such as taking care of husbands and educating children and filial piety to in-laws. However, if they are "women who look up", women who usually like to walk with their heads up are usually lively and careless, or they have strong personalities. Fortunately, in today's era, the concept of "looking up to women" has long been out of date, and women's social status has also improved. In a family, men and women are equal.

Then what is a bowing man? It's the kind of man who doesn't dare to speak loudly and walks with his head down for fear of falling. It also refers to men who have no opinions in life. When they encounter something, they often just lower their heads, but they don't try to solve the problem. Therefore, the ancients did not advocate marrying their daughters to such men, because there was no man to rely on when things happened after marriage. Everything depends on yourself, and it is easy to be unhappy in the future. And marry a man who doesn't bow his head, which is also a basic cognition of women to men. One must hold one's head high when walking. If you walk with your head down, you can see that you have no sense of responsibility and no confidence in yourself. How can you support a family? It turns out that men will bring home the bacon in the future. How can they support their families when they live with their heads down? Who dares to marry such a man without sense of responsibility and responsibility? Whoever marries suffers, and whoever marries suffers. Fortunately, this kind of bowing head was rare in rural areas before, because rural men had to endure hardships and exercise since childhood. However, this kind of man has increased in modern times, which is what people call "Ma Baonan", which refers to a man who does nothing but let his mother do it under the care of his mother.

It is the common sense of rural people about the concept of marriage that you can't marry a woman who looks up to you and a man who looks down on you. But as long as the husband and wife live with mutual respect, even a woman who looks up will be happy in marriage, and some men are willing to be the men behind women.