Ways to overcome inferiority complex

You feel inferior for a long time, please do this 12 thing crazily. You are really beautiful when you are confident. There are 12 ways to overcome inferiority complex.

1, learn positive self-suggestion:

(1) Walk with your head held high. A straight back is the best interpretation of self-confidence.

(2) Smile more at ordinary times. A sincere smile is a good medicine to heal people's hearts, which can not only warm others, but also warm themselves.

(3) praise yourself every day. After washing every day, say to yourself in the mirror: You are great, keep on cheering!

2. Self-discipline:

I like a line on TV: "Don't play hard now, I'll play with you later." "

The more self-discipline, the more freedom. This freedom is not only material, but also spiritual.

When you really make up your mind to be self-disciplined, you should learn to study and exercise.

Don't eat what you shouldn't eat ... at this time, the inferiority complex has slipped away.

3. Dress up the external image:

Your appearance is the first business card and a key step to improve your self-confidence. Please carefully find a reference book about dressing, or study two or three dressing bloggers to find a dressing style that suits you.

Ps: Ask the stylist to design a hairstyle that suits you;

Do basic skin cleaning and care every day;

Wearing trinkets is icing on the cake.

4. Improve academic qualifications

Education is like a second business card. If you don't like your low education, you will never be confident. The more knowledge, the easier it is to attract excellent people.

College students can be promoted to undergraduate courses: undergraduates can take the postgraduate entrance examination: even after graduation for many years, they can obtain formal higher education qualifications through self-examination, TV University, correspondence and adult examination.

5. Do what you are good at:

If you are naturally introverted and not good at communication, but you must grit your teeth and do sales, inferiority is certain. Similarly;

A restless and passionate person who insists on being a librarian will feel hopeless in life.

I was born to be useful! You should see clearly your talents and specialties and engage in the fields you love, like and are good at. Then the feedback given by the environment at this time is all positive. How can you feel inferior?

6. Stop comparing with others:

People with low self-esteem often like to compare their own shortcomings with the advantages of others, and the more they compare, the more sad they are. You must understand that you are a unique existence in this world and no one can replace you.

A great success in life is to live what you like. You just want to be unique. What other people do is none of your business. You don't need to care about anyone's eyes, as long as you like yourself, then you are successful.

7. Reconciliation with family of origin:

Most people's inferiority complex is related to their family background, but please remember that it is never better to let go of hatred. Instead of recalling those sad past events, it is better to think more about how to get along happily in the future.

Find a good time, patiently tell your parents what's on your mind, and all the haze buried in your heart. If your wish is sincere enough, your parents will always respect your choice. It is not easy to take this step, but everyone will be comfortable after it is completed.

8. Stay away from junk friends:

In the process of your efforts, there are many stumbling blocks. Many times, the stumbling block is your friend. When you are reciting carefully, she calls you to play games; When you are ready to keep running, she will drag you to drink and dance. ...

For such a friend who is good at dragging his feet, it is better to break it as soon as possible. Once you start to fall, inferiority will follow you.

9, bravely out of the comfort zone

Inferiority is like a spring. If you are soft on it, it will be hard. If you are too hard on it, it will soften. If your inferiority complex tells you not to speak in public.

That will definitely make a fool of you. At this time, you should boldly go out of your comfort zone and make a public speech.

Please believe that when you take this seemingly difficult step, the applause of the audience will make you feel that all these attempts and efforts are worthwhile.

10, actively accept the true self.

Please look at your own advantages and disadvantages objectively. The shortcomings in your eyes may be just advantages. For example, I am not tall enough, but I have enhanced my affinity; My family is not rich, but it just gives me a positive ambition. ….

You have to understand that you are far from being as bad as you think! On the contrary, in what you think is bad, there must be some enviable advantages hidden on the other side.

You are excellent and worthy of being loved, so you should love yourself more.

1 1, enriching the inner:

Read more books and watch high-scoring inspirational movies. Nutrients from books and movies can keep the vitality of the spiritual world. People who read and watch movies for a long time will not have fixed thinking and narrow cognition.

No time to read is an excuse, and 20 minutes a day can always be squeezed out. A short reading every day can also nourish your spirit and enrich your inner self.

12, increase revenue and reduce expenditure, and strive to deposit:

The amount of your deposit is also directly proportional to your self-confidence. start from today

Stop all consumption in advance, and resolutely don't buy luxury goods beyond your ability.

Make a list before you buy something, and then check the necessities. Please set aside 20% of your income every month, and don't move unless necessary. If you have enough spare time, you can develop sideline business appropriately. Many people's sideline business will gradually replace their main business after it develops and grows.