Anti-puppy love handwritten newspaper

Puppy love means falling in love too early, which is wrong, but how to prevent it? This is a thorny issue. Puppy love children are often sensitive and fragile and cannot be attacked. How should we treat them? Please read the detailed explanation below, maybe you will know your child better.

How to prevent and stop puppy love?

First, education on ideals and outlook on life. Ideal is the image of pursuing and yearning for the future; Outlook on life is a view of the value of life. In the spring, the outlook on life is forming and the ideal is being established, which is a good opportunity for education. Once they realize the value and goal of life, they will devote all their energy to the study of cultural and scientific knowledge and reserve the strength of life. At this time, even the stupid actions of sexual consciousness can be restrained. A middle school student wrote in his composition: "A week has passed, and I feel dizzy every day, like losing my soul ... Love, we have reason to get it, because we are still very young. But there are still many things waiting for us to do. What we need is mature thinking, rich experience, and the completion of an inner belief and ideal construction after exciting and uncertain youth. "

Second, conduct sexual knowledge and social moral education.

Sexual knowledge education should be combined with social moral education. First of all, we should focus on educational content according to different age stages. 12 ~ 16 years old, and carry out the education of physical health knowledge in spring to make them have a correct understanding of sexual development; 16 ~ 18 years old, can briefly introduce some sexual knowledge, so that they can treat the opposite sex and love correctly; 18 years old or older can guide them to seriously think about future marriage and family problems. Secondly, induce sexual consciousness and conduct sexual moral education. Bad factors in society cannot be strictly prohibited and banned. It is necessary to face the reality, induce them to improve their adaptability and immunity, and enhance their resistance and conscious inhibition to sexual induction. Recognizing that people are not animals must be bound by social ethics and moral laws.

Third, strengthen discipline education to prevent problems before they happen.

The task of students is to study, not to fall in love. It is necessary to create public opinion and supervise each other. We must seize the signs. Practice shows that although puppy love often can't restrain the feelings of love at first, it can be stopped by teachers or by hitting a wall in practice. Because puppy love is mostly out of curiosity or rebellious psychology and has no emotional foundation, stopping puppy love does not mean "leaving psychological trauma". Puppy love between them and social youth is difficult, because social youth have life experience, rich world and economic conditions, so families and schools should pay special attention to prevention and proper handling.

To sum up, in the face of children's puppy love, we should be rational, don't yell at them too much, and don't scold them. Instead, we should take it seriously, analyze it wisely, understand the reasons for their puppy love, and then deal with it according to this reason. For example, because of the lack of sexual knowledge, we can solve it by giving him supplementary sexual knowledge.