Why do people have different opinions about romantic men and women?

Due to the remnants of feudal thought, men are superior to women and mothers depend on their children. In the patriarchal society, women are attached to men, so there is a saying that wives are like clothes. Therefore, the social evaluation criteria for male and female sexual behavior are different, which is a bit double-marked. Men can be romantic, women can only be loyal, men can have mistresses, and women can only be widowed for life. This is the different requirements of Confucianism for men and women, and the inequality between men and women has led to many social tragedies.

Now we advocate equality between men and women. Both men and women should treat love and family seriously and responsibly, and don't let their romantic behavior affect the feelings between husband and wife. Love can't stand the test, and any derailment is hard to forgive. Even if you forgive, there will still be a knot in your heart.