How should marriage be run?

Respect each other, know pain and know heat.

Marriage must be based on mutual respect, then you can know that you love each other deeply, and then you can know that you care about each other from the heart. Husband and wife life, life is daily necessities, down-to-earth. Of course, you can also pay attention to some small romances in marriage, that is to say, marriage should not be too rigid, and at the same time, it should not be spiritual. It is good to have a little color in it.

Space is very important, and independence is the best.

Marriage is not a tie between each other, but an independent space in marriage, that is, when "I want to be alone" or "I want to concentrate on something", the other party can fully understand and absolutely support it. Then talk about independence. Both economic independence and spiritual independence are necessary. You know, each of us is an independent individual, whether emotionally or economically, we should try not to be attached to anyone. Even if we are married, we should live our own lives. Marriage is just a part of our life. Of course, this will be an important part of our life. We just need to treat it with heart, you know.

Learn to cook for both men and women.

If you choose to get married, whether you are a man or a woman, please learn to cook several famous dishes, or at least two dishes that your lover likes. This is the sentence, "If you want to keep someone who loves you, you must first keep the stomach of the person you love." I think it is relatively reasonable. Even if your cooking is not so delicious, your cooking mind will be full of your lover.

In marriage, we tend to make a mistake, that is, after a long time, we will become less and less willing to find each other's advantages and gradually expand each other's shortcomings, thus leading to the "seven-year itch." In fact, as long as we tolerate each other's shortcomings and slightly expand each other's advantages, then marriage will become much more relaxed and happy.

Stepping into marriage is actually the integration of two families. After marriage, you will also encounter some family chores, such as "the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law." If you want a harmonious marriage, you can't haggle over every ounce, that is to say, as long as you don't touch your own principles, you can muddle along with small things, so that family relations can become harmonious. Only when the family relationship is harmonious, then the marriage will naturally run happily.