Civilization and etiquette accompany our speech.

Our country is a country of etiquette and has always been polite. Confucius believes that "you can't stand without learning etiquette"; Jia Yi in Han Dynasty regarded politeness as the difference between man and beast. In modern civilized society, being civilized and polite should be strongly advocated, because it is of great significance to "form a good social atmosphere of pursuing nobleness and inspiring advanced" and "promote the continuous improvement of the quality of the whole nation". Therefore, we citizens should conform to the requirements of the times, consciously abide by them and be polite and civilized citizens. However, it is a pity that in real life, uncivilized and impolite phenomena often appear.

For example, when listening to others, look around and despise them; Grab, fight for seats and even fight as soon as you get on the bus; Spitting in public places, littering and urinating on the roadside. On June 6, 2004, Beijing Radio and TV News reported that the roadside to the east of Muxidi Science and Technology Museum has become an open-air toilet for taxi drivers, so that it can be smelled every few hundred meters, and residents have great opinions. Residents can't have small opinions. In broad daylight, in broad daylight, it is convenient to say it is convenient on the side of the road without fences. It's really uncivilized It is convenient for people to urinate, but it is not convenient for passers-by. Not only is it inconvenient for pedestrians, but foreigners will not laugh at the low quality of our whole Chinese nation when they see it, because your convenience has discriminated against and implicated the whole nation. What a scandal! Be worthy of raising your motherland?

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John Locke, a famous British educator, said: "Politeness is a habit that children and young people should pay special attention to." We should learn from Premier Zhou, and American President Nixon commented on this in his book Leaders. Nixon said: "Zhou Enlai's agility and wit far exceed that of any other world leader I know. This is China's unique and special character, and it is also the essence of various China civilizations developed over the centuries. He is very modest, but calm and firm. " Zhou Enlai's civilized speech, polite manners, convincing temperament and demeanor are vivid manifestations of his noble character, broad mind, extraordinary wisdom and beautiful and noble mind.

It seems that manners are very important. So, what should we do? First of all, pay attention to cultivate your beautiful and noble mind. On the surface, politeness is external, but in fact, the external form contains internal thoughts and feelings. A truly civilized and polite person is a person with a beautiful heart, and beautiful language comes from a beautiful heart. This is what people often say: "what you say is what you do" and "what you say is what you do". Secondly, we should regulate our words and deeds with the requirements of civilized and polite moral standards in practice. Politeness is very important in performance. It mainly includes four points: ① Modesty and courtesy; 2 civilized speech; 3 dignified behavior; ④ Pay attention to hygiene. I think, if you can do the above four points, you are worthy of being a member of the "state of etiquette".

Goethe, a famous German writer, famously said, "A man's politeness is a mirror, which reflects his portrait." Indeed, people always judge you by your behavior. Because politeness is the golden key for human beings to live in harmony, and only with it can we be happy and happy.

Civilization is a quality that everyone must possess.

Deng Wenxue, Senior One (1)

The wind of etiquette has been passed down for thousands of years, and China is known as "an ancient civilization" and "a country of etiquette". In today's society, from the exchange of visits between heads of state to the communication between ordinary people, from the smile of political masters to the handshake of business masters, the brilliance of civilization and etiquette shines.

When we contact a person, we often give him some comments: "This person is of high quality and personable"; "This man is educated and speaks politely"; "This man is so bad that he can't even say a good word"; "This man is vulgar and foul-mouthed"; "This man is so sloppy that his clothes are wrinkled and his face has not been wiped clean" ... A high-quality and educated person must have good manners. Such people will be respected and welcomed.

Civilized etiquette should pay attention to peacetime, cultivate from childhood and develop good habits. There is an old saying: "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." The story of "Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage" shows that only by respecting others can you gain their respect and trust and succeed in your career. Zhou Enlai devoted his whole life to the cause of the Party and the people, but every time he went out to inspect the work, he always shook hands with waiters, chefs, guards and medical staff to express his gratitude. Premier Zhou is a model of respecting others and an example for young people to learn. Some people think that freedom is not important in modern society, as long as you study hard, work hard and have real skills. Modern society does respect individual choices and has greater freedom. However, it needs more civilized manners, because civilized manners are an important symbol of the degree of social civilization. There are more and more "elegant halls" in modern society, and no one wants to be a person who is difficult to board "elegant halls".

Japanese family education attaches great importance to the education of children. The mother cooked the meal without telling the child to eat it. Children can't eat by themselves first. Children must say "you're welcome" before eating. Children have a set of etiquette rules every time they leave home or go home. Children should say "I'm leaving" to their parents every time they go out, and "I'm back" every time they go home and enter the door. The civilized behavior of Japanese children has become their habit.

Japan has strict customs, not to mention our ancient country with a culture of 5,000 years.

Now, our country pays more and more attention to civilized manners, such as advocating civilized manners; Publication of "Popular Reader of Civilized Etiquette"; Carry out a variety of activities such as the "Capital Citizen Civilization and Etiquette Competition". Once I was in the street, I saw four eight or nine-year-old children moving their bicycles away from the blind road. Sweat trickled down their foreheads one after another, but they didn't care. Seeing this scene, I think anyone will be moved by them. This incident is enough to prove the achievements of China's civilized etiquette education.

Civilized manners and behaviors, together with quiet, elegant and comfortable environment and rich cultural atmosphere, will stimulate students to explore and seek knowledge. Good manners and customs can affect your study, your life and even your later life. Why not? Only with deep background, elegant speech and proper manners can we be called real connotative beauty.