How to politely refuse to chat with others?

Instead of trying to figure out how to refuse to chat without leaving a trace, just tell him that I don't want to chat now, I'm busy or something, otherwise he will find it pleasant to chat with you. It is better to tell him to give up directly than to let him imagine with a happy mood.

I don't quite understand why the subject uses the word refusal. Can I understand that the subject doesn't want to chat with the other party anymore, but the other party still often chats with the subject. Out of politeness, the subject doesn't want to be too cold or ignore each other directly, but he really doesn't want to continue chatting with each other. Therefore, I hope that through some euphemistic language, the other party will be aware of their attitude, so as to achieve the goal of being safe and not interfering with each other in the future.

If I understand correctly, I can give the following suggestions.

1, I don't think it's a good choice to politely refuse to chat, because, from a certain point of view, I think the only difference between euphemistic refusal and direct refusal is that it can save face for the other party. Generally speaking, it is better to politely refuse in public, but there is almost no face problem in private chat. So there is not much difference between the two. If the subject doesn't like to refuse directly, I suggest fading out gradually. As for people, no one is irreplaceable in social life. So as long as you chat with the purpose of gradually fading out of each other's circles, someone will replace you soon, and then you will no longer know her. That's what you want to delete. Specifically, you can gradually express your different values, world outlook, outlook on life, different interests and circles, reflect different work and rest habits, and let the other party realize that you are not suitable, even if you are friends.

If you have the same views and interests? So why forget or miss each other? I think it's good to be friends. I believe there is friendship between the opposite sex, as long as it is self-denial.

If you have to solve the problem in your way, that is, politely refuse, then the easiest way is not to reply to the other party's message in time. She sends you a message, and you can reply within two hours. Soon, she won't talk to you.

Or if you think it will leave a bad impression on the other party, then I must say, since I am leaving, why should I leave a perfect impression? This will only make the other person sad because he was rejected by an excellent person. I don't think it's right to be handsome and hurt others.

But if you have to say no in a certain language. My suggestion is:

Life has its own destiny, and it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.

That's about it.