What gift should my classmates give me for doing things for me?

Gift-giving is an important course in sociology, which is something that today's society has to learn. Maybe you hate it, but you can't escape it. We exchange gifts with friends, sending them to our superiors to show our concern and sending them to our subordinates to show our affection. In short, gifts fill our life and work. Gifts have always been the lubricant of social life and the thermometer of the world.

The knowledge of gift-giving is nothing more than three points: what to send, how to send it, and who to send it to. Enlightened people are handy and flowing freely. Stupid people do their best but accomplish nothing.

There is an old saying: "Officials don't give gifts." Today, however, there are laws prohibiting officials from accepting gifts. Therefore, most people will avoid formal occasions when giving gifts to leaders. As long as it does not directly involve money and power transactions, the scale is much looser. In addition to the practicality of the gift itself, the convenience of evaluation and secondary circulation is also a factor that the giver must consider.

Another kind of gift is to give a "name" and a title of distinguished professor or visiting professor through colleges and universities, which is both risk-free and elegant. Observing the current new trend of gift giving, you can also focus on the newly opened shops near high-end real estate. Leading home improvement to send high-grade furniture. Most leading private houses pay attention to feng shui, and all kinds of exquisite jade ornaments, Guan Gong and Buddha statues are more popular than Chairman Mao.

Nowadays, network supervision has become a hot topic among the whole people, and personal belongings such as watches, pens or brand-name belts have become the focus of netizens' attention. As a gift with famous watches, it is best to avoid styles with obvious signs. Generally speaking, the basic models of second-and third-tier brands such as Omega (constellation and seahorse series), Longines (THE TEMPLE OF JIALAN and Magnificent series), Radar (precision ceramics series) and Tudor (Zijun Wang Jue series) are more reliable and can afford the normal income of leaders. It is more convenient to send a shopping card directly.

There is a jingle in the workshop: "It is normal to give gifts on holidays, and the little red bag is auspicious. I will support you and communicate with you more when you have something at home. The leadership clappers support me, and I am selfless in giving gifts with public funds. It doesn't matter if you are afraid of an accident. You can also send your family. Send the small ones first, then the big ones, and be brothers step by step. " Slow stew is the basic route of giving gifts, with one exception, that is, giving a "name", such as giving a title of distinguished professor or a visiting professor through colleges and universities. Although the bend is a little big, it is not risky and elegant. "Scholar-type officials" are the most popular varieties at present, and colleges and universities are also willing to attract promising officials as alumni. This is really a safe, decent and win-win thing.

Compared with officialdom, there are far fewer taboos for giving gifts in shopping malls. Pan Shiyi, the boss of SOHO, became a topic of discussion in the streets because he published two generations of "Pan Coins" in Weibo the year before last. Later, I simply printed a limited edition of the real thing as a company gift to people from all walks of life, which is euphemistically called. Not long ago, another legendary figure with ups and downs, Chu Shijian, the former chairman of hongta group, came back and launched "Chu Orange", which has also become the most popular New Year gift in Beijing-Shanghai business circle.

Compared with real luxury goods, the popularity of these gifts, in addition to their own characteristics, often benefits from the topic effect. In other words, the mainstream gift-giving in shopping malls pays attention to sunshine, propriety, economy and practicality (pan currency can be used as a bookmark at least), and it will not cause economic burden after reciprocity. It would be better if you could send a rich tree when Cantonese people open their business and a stone lion when Fujian people move.

Teach you how to give gifts and what gifts to give.

1, friends in the intellectual circle, gifts should be simple and generous. If he is a writer, the best gift is "don't give, give", asking him to write a book and ask him to sign it, so that he can feel desired, watched, valued and worshipped, which is more expensive than compliment; And the painter can only buy, can't want, want, is to rob money! As for buying one and getting one free, it's friendship.

2, boss friends, then avoid reality. Older friends, introduce famous doctors in the medical field; Young friends, introduce famous educators. There is a saying in Shanghai: "You can protect yourself, but you can't protect your children and grandchildren." Famous doctors are in the front and famous teachers are in the back, which not only protects themselves, but also protects future generations.

3. Low-income friends send benefits. What is affordable? Seven things to open the door, daily necessities, tobacco, alcohol and tea. It is better to send oil, rice and pork. Eating is more affordable than wearing, because eating is a consumable. Eat it today, and it will be gone tomorrow. You can send it this year and next year, so you don't have to rack your brains. At the end of the year, the company always gives gifts, either olive oil or Japanese rice. Dragon Boat Festival, send meat floss, which is more upscale than meat dumplings; On the Mid-Autumn Festival, sending jiaozi with minced meat is more valuable than mooncakes, at least to stay away from diabetes.

4. Pay a New Year call to a businessman, and you can send anything. If you send a book, whether it is hardcover or gold, his brow will wrinkle: either "three books" or "Kawamoto". The book is homophonic with the loss, which is an unlucky stroke. "A Er fried rice cakes, which is thankless."

5, an old friend's birthday, if it is an "old gun", give him two "red Chinese", which is exactly what you want; If one's daughter-in-law is a medical worker, it is tantamount to inviting a diabetic to eat sugar, and she is an "ambiguous" friend.

6. Introduce some dealers to the industrial boss; Introduce some rich people to the fund manager. Everyone is accommodating, but they are all happy. For the boss, everything that money can buy is free. "It's better to have another drink when you're drunk than nothing."

7, the old-timer silver wedding, send him a silver turtle, meaning: forever, a thousand years old turtle. But the old woman was unhappy: the tortoise and the cuckold are two sides of the same coin. Flower baskets and wreaths are inseparable and belong to "unclear" friends.

8. White-collar friends give priority to spiritual products, and petty bourgeoisie sends theater tickets, preferably in a small theater, indicating that they are outstanding and do not follow the crowd; Send exhibition tickets, preferably oil paintings, which must be abstract and realistic, and will be misunderstood as a photo exhibition.

9. The highest level of gift-giving: not only for the heart, but also for the memory.

10, the concept of gifts: professionals give precious things, laymen give beautiful things. For example, Qimen black tea has rare buds, and theaflavins in the buds can soften blood vessels, but alcohol without alcohol will damage the liver. In the white porcelain cup, it is transparent, red and bright, with a gold ring on the edge. This is the top grade, and only experts can understand it. Send professionals, the packaging is best "glass cover", which is a "transparent gift", and it does not need big bags and small bags, nor does it need to be vast. This year, my tea farmer Chen in Qimen gave me a batch of tender Qimen black tea, which I converted into aluminum-plastic red tin cans. Friends have dinner, I accompany them, and everyone has one. This is called "hand gift". Make another pot, explain it in public, drink with friends, understand first, then understand, knowing that it is hard to find. I forgot this meal in the future; This pot of tea, remember.

1 1, the biggest trick of giving gifts: just right. This is the most difficult measure to grasp. Don't rush to trade, especially since it's been a long time. The gift is too heavy for him to accept, thinking that you want him to do something "bad". You'd better call first. Surprise greeting is the best gift. The name of this gift is "Rain comes after a long drought", which is also called "preheating the cold stove".

12, the first essence of giving gifts: what is missing. Low-income friends, vote for their "needs"; Boss friends, vote for their "good"; Petty bourgeoisie friends, vote for what you want.