Grassroots women? (Love, money and the establishment of a spiritual world)—Reading Notes

Grassroots women? Love, money and the establishment of a spiritual world

The author Wang Huiling was born in a rural area and graduated from a technical secondary school. She has more than 2 million fans in the self-media "Lingling Peter and Four Cats" , the video content has over 100 million clicks, and after 10 years of business, this book opens up women’s wisdom

The author’s book is divided into three parts

1. Family of origin: draw clear boundaries and wean the soul

1. Complete spiritual weaning

2. Draw a clear boundary with parents

3. Spiritual and material independence is the only way out

4. You always have a choice

5. A loving blood relationship is a family

2. Self-growth, spiritual and material independence

1.20 When you turn 30, what should you do in the past 10 years?

Be independent, study, and enter marriage cautiously. If you are not mature enough, don’t get married because of age anxiety. Marriage is just the starting point of a life, not the beginning of happiness. .

2. To prosper your own spiritual kingdom, don’t bind your own thoughts. Marrying and relying on men is not what you should do in life. It is what women in the new era should do to experience the wonderful moments of life like men do, rather than staying in one house.

3. You are your only supporter, live a life that makes you feel happy

4. Live a life without being kidnapped

5. Really Selfishness is emotional blackmail in the name of love

6. Overcome ideological poverty, quit relying on words, get rid of crutches and dependence

7. Security is what you have on hand Technique, continue to plant a garden of happiness

8. Don’t be confused by social marketing games, the meaning of life is the pursuit of happiness, not desire

9. Live like water , build your own dam, then accumulate, and everything will come true

10. Get rid of appearance anxiety, define beauty by yourself, health, happiness, strength, and wild body are the original beauty of animals, not pathologies, marketing Bai Youmei.

11. Confidence comes from a lot of experience

12. Change starts with action

13. Taking responsibility for life is the only way to truly "love yourself"< /p>

3. Gender relations, creating value and sharing benefits

1. The conflict in mate selection caused by the deviation of consciousness between men and women. Men regard women more as private property and want to exploit women as male productivity. Liberation channel, but this road is dead now. Women can make money, and men also need to return to the family and pay the value of companionship and nurturing that they should bear, liberating women with more possibilities, realizing women's own value, rather than assisting wet nurses.

2. Avoid falling into dangerous relationships between the sexes

3. Young people should fall in love more

4. The significance of bride price to women, here refers to Endorsement for childbearing, the poorer the man, the heavier the betrothal gift, and the richer he is. On the contrary, he does not value the betrothal gift very much. Endorsement is the logic.

5. The value of childbearing

6. Work for society in exchange for benefit protection

7. The essence of marriage is to create benefits and value together

8. Love, marriage, and childbirth are three things Different things

9. There is no way out for working for the family

10. Stay away from men who are mentally poor. The more mentally poor men are, the easier it is to go to extremes, and the cost of betrayal is lower. Less nutrients.

11. Sexual equality in the relationship between the sexes

12. To give birth to children for yourself, males in nature are only sperm providers. There are very few males in the population who raise and accompany their cubs. Men are also animals. The less willpower a man has to overcome his animal attributes, the more difficult it is for him to support childbearing. They are generally lower-class men. Widowed parenting is basically the type of men who cannot overcome their animal attributes. They have no anti-human experience, no self-discipline, and no higher cognition.

13. The traditional marriage model consumes female energy

14. Life does not care about your gender

15. Love is a spiritual "luxury"

16. Emotional violence in the antagonism between men and women

17. Let go of the moral kidnapping between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The book advocates that women should think independently, walk independently, and be financially independent. Beware of moral kidnapping. Girls will have no home when they grow up. They must have strong bodies, strong spirits, inner enrichment, be completely responsible for themselves, be clear-headed and rational, and correct love should involve both parties developing together and giving equally, and It is not a one-sided enjoyment, and I agree that where the money is, there is love. Interests will make love clearer, not more fragile, dare to try and make mistakes, and understand human nature