"Don't you walk if you are afraid of wrestling?" What does this soldier's grandfather mean?

The older generation always said that children today are really happy. When they were born, it was like being soaked in a honey pot. They didn't have to eat anything. Compared with their children then, not to mention how happy they are now. Perhaps it was because the older generation had a hard time at that time that they spoiled their children and grandchildren.

Compared with this doting army, Grandpa Li is different.

If the child falls, let him get up and walk by himself. Don't let him walk because he is afraid of wrestling? ? These are grandpa Li's exact words.

Grandpa Li is a soldier, and now he is old. He retired and took care of his grandson at home. Little grandson is very naughty. He jumps up and down and runs around every day, which will inevitably lead to injuries. But unlike other children, the little grandson has always been strong and never cries when he falls.

You should educate your child like this, let him experience it, and always protect him. When will he grow up! ?

Your grandfather's steel education model can also be used for reference for children's education now. When a child is naughty and injured, it is a good thing for the child to do this like Grandpa Li, which can bring the following benefits to the child.

1 Refuse to commit another crime

Children are very curious about the world, so they always take the initiative to explore, and the world will inevitably be hurt during this period. For some security risks, parents should nip in the bud. But some small things, parents don't have to stare at them all the time, they can let their children feel this. In this way, the experience or lessons gained from their own personal practice will be deeply imprinted in children's minds. The next time they encounter the same thing, they will remember the situation at that time and will not make the same mistake again.

2. Learn to be independent

Nowadays, many children take food with clothes. Sometimes they fall down and cry on the road, so parents can help them get up. Imagine how children who grow up under such education can be independent. As parents, we should not be scavengers on the road of children's growth, but teach children how to live and survive independently in this world. Only by teaching this skill to children is the greatest concern and love for children.

When children try to do something by themselves when they are young, parents should give them the opportunity to do it, either well or badly. It is a process for children to handle things alone, accumulate experience and learn skills, which is beneficial to children.

3. Correct values

The formation of children's values in the process of growing up is basically influenced by family or school education, and a few are values acquired by children's own experience. If parents spoil their children too much, then children will think that all parents' efforts should be paid, and once the wrong values are formed, it will be very unfavorable for children.

Therefore, children should be allowed to experience life by themselves. When they gain direct experience, all parents have to do is tell their children whether it is right or wrong and why. The experience gained in this way will be unforgettable for children all their lives.

Every child will eventually grow up, and children who grow up under the protection of doting will always be children. In order to let children live independently in this world in the future, parents should let go when it is time to let go, and they should refuse to help when their children fall. Teaching children skills and strength is more useful than holding them in your arms all the time.