Why young people don't want to have children now? Can you give me your opinion?

To put it simply: I can't afford to give birth, I can't afford to raise ...

It's worth analyzing carefully. 1. objective reasons

at present, the main force of giving birth to children is the post-8s and post-9s, and they are only children themselves. The number of these people is not that large, so the fertility rate naturally drops. Right now, this fertility rate has to count the middle-aged middle-class people who are now around 4, and they are rushing to give birth to one, otherwise the fertility rate will be even lower if they look at young people under 3.

There is another reason. After the expansion of university enrollment for many times, the number of people going to university has increased dramatically. After graduating from university at the age of 23.4 and graduate at the age of 25.6, it will be good to have a suitable relationship for two years and get married and have children before the age of 3. Don't worry about getting married after graduation. It's not like this happened from the sky ... 2. Qian Qian's money < P > is just money. Nowadays, young people born after 198s and 199s have to support themselves, and then they have to support four old people and one or two children. The pressure of mortgage, the cost of living and the salary that will not rise for ten thousand years love each other and kill each other. It is really not enough to earn some money.

In my parents' generation, the standard of living was similar, so it didn't make much difference to have one more child and one less child, as long as I had enough to eat. Now, with the development of the times and social progress, the birth of a child begins with all kinds of pregnancy tests, all the way to all kinds of expenses of birth, and then starts to attend all kinds of early education classes and preschool classes, and then goes to remedial classes and interest classes. . There are some children in other people's families, and we don't want our children to be wronged ... Yesterday, we had dinner with friends, and his daughter was less than one year old. She has already started to sign up for that kind of morning shift for intellectual development, which made me stunned ... < P > This is the money we spent since we were pregnant for six months. . The big head is probably still behind

It's all money.

When children are older, they go to college, which is almost 2,-3, yuan per year, and it will be 1, yuan in four years. At present, college students' living expenses for a month, normal families have to be more than 15 yuan, and we are not willing to lose our children if we have the ability.

When a child graduates, talk about marriage. The daughter is fine. A dowry of 5, yuan is enough. As for my son, he just graduated without savings, so we can't help him, buy a house, decorate and get married, and go out in the blink of an eye for more than one million. . One can still bite his teeth, and the other two, it's useless to bite them. What? ! Three. Four? ! Farewell, I don't deserve it ...

I don't mean to prefer boys to girls. I also want to give my daughter a house to give her some money to live in. The tradition of our country is here. If my daughter finds a good family but the conditions are poor, she can help us if she can ... 3. She has no idea about the second child. < P > At that time, the country encouraged birth, and later the country started family planning. Now the main force of birth is 8.9. Most of them are only children, and they feel quite good when they grow up. They don't have the feeling of brothers and sisters in their parents' generation, and naturally they don't have any obsession with opening the second child, but their parents' generation does.

I grew up looking at the slogan in the village:

After listening to the deep-rooted influence for more than 2 years, I suddenly gave birth to a second child ... I'm sorry I had to slow down ... I couldn't do it when I was in family planning; Now, the second child is opened to encourage childbearing, and there is no policy to encourage it ... 4. Ideological change < P > In the past, the old people's thinking was "having more children and more happiness" and "raising children to prevent old age", but now young people have long forgotten this. Parents' generation can scrimp and save for their children. Now, our generation has to enjoy life by itself more, and it is impossible to pay unreservedly like parents. Having more babies will definitely affect your life.

Life is not easy. The quality of life is not so good, and then the last quality is crushed by the children ... Ask the young people who want it! Let's not say that when the old children have more life security, one filial piety is enough, and no amount of unfilial ones is useless; I can't bear being young at the moment. You tell me about being old, stop it! ! I'm not saying that none of them will be born. Although there are more and more people in Dink now, I still want to have my own children, but I won't be born for the sake of life.

My wife is pregnant now, and I will be promoted to be a father at the end of the year. I am very happy.

I haven't considered the second child for the time being. Let's see what the first child will look like.

In our real life, the overall fertility desire of young people is indeed greatly reduced compared with their parents. Since the release of the second child a few years ago, many experts believe that there will be a birth peak, and even a blowout development, but the actual situation is just the opposite. The population birth rate has fallen instead of rising. There are also people who urgently need to catch the last bus of childbearing in the late 7 s and early 8 s. If these people are left aside and only young people are concerned, the population birth rate will be lower, which also proves that the young people's fertility will be greatly reduced, and even many "Dink" families have appeared.

Looking back to the source, I think there are several reasons why young people have changed so much:

First, the cost of childcare has increased. In the past, the living standards of all the parents' families were similar, and the disparity between the rich and the poor was not great. Influenced by the concept of "having more children and more happiness", they had a strong desire to give birth, and there was no big difference between having one more and having one less, so the cost of raising children was very low. Nowadays, the gap between the rich and the poor is widening, the rich are flowing oil, the poor are short of water, and social competition is intensifying. From pregnancy to college graduation, the cost of raising a child can't be supported without hundreds of thousands. Ordinary families can't earn much money all their lives. Raising a child is beyond their power. Who dares to have a second child? Isn't that fatal?

second, the change of ideas. In the past, the main concepts that affected fertility were that many children are blessed, and the family is passed on, and filial piety is the greatest. Nowadays, these concepts can only affect a very small number of people, and even many old people have realized the disadvantages of this concept. The vast majority of people have been liberated from this traditional concept, and influenced by the family planning policy for nearly 4 years, modern concepts such as fewer children and better children can lead a happy life have also been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. As a result, many people are not willing to have children, and what's more, especially those with high academic qualifications, learn western concepts and have no children and become a "Dink" family.

Third, the comprehensive cost of survival is too high. In the past, there was a grasshopper who had no money and could have a wife. Now, buying a house for one million, getting a wife for 2, and buying a car for more than 1, really won't let ordinary people live. One son is listless, and the two directly sentence you to death. It's not up to you to decide what kind of life you will lead when you are old. The endless life also makes people have the concept of living in the present, drinking today and drinking ahead. For this reason, young people don't have the energy, time and money to support more next generation, and they are capable of supporting themselves and a child. Otherwise, how can society save more than 3 million bachelors? Divorce is a common occurrence.

I think, the first one is that the open society now leads young people to think that self-freedom is king. The second is that young people now have too much social pressure and economic pressure to want children. The third is that there is a child now, who has experienced the process of raising a child, and the investment in children's education is too large.

you don't have to ask? If you don't have money, you won't have a second child. Grandparents will take care of it or not. Why, why, why? Is it a problem of ideas or a way of thinking? My experience is that they are lazy if they are not short of money and have someone to take care of them. In the case of lack of money and people, it is intolerable. It is obvious that the fertility desire in cities is lower than that in rural areas, and their worries are not unreasonable. There are worries about whether they can afford to have children or not. Most of the current jobs are not guaranteed, and what will happen to the future housing prices, the cost of raising children is bottomless, and so on. Young people are confused, so some of them are unwilling to have a second child. Their views are not in tune with their parents' ideas, so let it be. But I support having a second child.

The cost of raising children is too high

The pressure of life is so great, and the cost of education is so high. As a post-9s generation, I think about it and forget it. Just have one!

there is no money, and there is monogamy. If you have money and policies, there will still be many people who are willing to marry several wives and have a bunch of babies. How lively it is on holidays. It seems that there is a great man in Hunan, and he still does.

developing population? It depends on the majority of ordinary people to have children and raise them until they are cultivated? How much does it cost to succeed in a child? Rich people know, how much do their children spend a day? Generally speaking, young ordinary couples, they make money desperately? Three or four thousand dollars a month? There are old people in the world and children in the world. Is it enough? What about getting sick? If you don't say anything else, it's going to kill you just to catch up with your relatives and friends! This is 5! That one thousand? Don't love without it! How do you spend your days? Man, don't stand and tell me what to do, okay What do you want from others? Did someone else have a good day? Do you still have to worry about having a baby? Why don't you just have more children yourself? What if it's cold? You always shout that rice is not long? You don't blame the weather? Blame rice? Don't you find it ridiculous? Think about other people's income first? Talk about having children again?

When you were a child, it was too expensive to raise ... When you grow up, you can't afford to be rebellious ... When you are old, you will get sick. When you have no money in your pocket, your children will hate to abandon you! The same idea of modern people: Life is too short ~ Why bother? Don't be tied up to relax all the way ~ help yourself to finish your life!