Because of this slogan, the groom broke off his marriage.

Some people say that a wedding means "growing up", which becomes the dividing line in a woman's life. Since then, she is no longer an ignorant daughter, but a wife and mother with a heavy burden.

Some people say that the wedding is more like an inspiring ceremony, which means that both men and women should leave family of origin and regard the people around them as partners for the rest of their lives.

It can be seen that the wedding is very important, so I personally don't understand why some people always try to suppress the new couple at the wedding, such as not respecting the bride to get married and the groom to suddenly ask for a huge "opening fee".

After all, because of the above situation, there are many examples of giving up halfway through the wedding. If two families do not want to get married, don't get married. Why do they always quarrel after doing it?

What do those who divorce at the wedding really seek?

0 1 The wedding was interrupted. Who will be responsible for a shabby wedding?

Reader Lu Qing became a joke in the neighborhood. At the wedding scene, the groom broke off in public. Finally, he went back to his mother's house in the wedding car, which attracted people around him to watch.

Phoenix's crest and robe have not been taken off, but it is very different from the festive occasion when going out. The original glittering phoenix hairpin on Lu Qing's head is now covered with a layer of dust, and it keeps shaking on her bun, as if laughing at her with others.

Divorce at the wedding scene is a big event, but Lu Qing thinks it's worth it.

Because she saw the true face of the man's family, she was poor, sour and stingy, and had no respect for the woman.

"Such a family, whether married or not, I just ruined my reputation for a while, but won the freedom for the rest of my life." Lu Qing said this.

It turns out that all kinds of contradictions lie in the layout of the wedding, which is different from the specifications negotiated in advance.

As soon as Lu Qing arrived at the hotel, she found that neither the on-site decoration nor the scene layout, nor even the set menu of dishes was fixed.

Lu Qing immediately pulled the man's principal over and asked, "What's the matter? These are not the packages we booked in advance. How can you change it temporarily? "

The person in charge faltered, did not dare to respond, and quickly called the groom to comfort him.

As a result, there was a fierce quarrel between the two. At first, the man coaxed and said, "We are all here. How to tie a knot is not a knot, just to save money. The previous package was too expensive. "

Lu Qing was unhappy: "I haven't said it before, or I haven't done it." If I want to do it, I will do it well. Now my relatives, friends and college classmates are all here. Watching such a shabby wedding and eating your 500 yuan banquet. Are you embarrassed? "

After that, she sat in the dressing room and didn't go out. The MC urged Liu Qing to take the stage.

Who knows that when it comes to tea, she is disgusted at the sight of her in-laws beaming, and simply stands motionless on the stage. Just then, the groom overturned the champagne tower, and the goblet broke all over the floor, threatening to announce: "I'm not getting married, so I'm breaking off my marriage now!" "

My family had no money, and my mother, who had recovered from a serious illness, insisted on coming to the wedding, but she refused to offer tea.

Today, readers already know the reason why Lu Qing held a wedding.

In one case, the man took action first, and then changed the pre-determined wedding specifications with the wedding banquet package.

Second, the wedding money was saved, and the in-laws were beaming, which angered Lu Qing's nerves.

None of the above two points seems to be a necessary condition for breaking off an engagement, but the groom's army turned against him, which directly made things irreparable.

So, what does this man think?

The groom is 29 years old and married late. He and Lu Qing met on a blind date, so it can be said that their feelings are not deep.

He changed the wedding arrangements without authorization for the following reasons.

First of all, his mother fell ill six months ago and spent most of her savings. In addition, her mother's wish is that he get married as soon as possible, so he stays with Lu Qing in order to "complete the task", so Lu Qing's preferences become unimportant.

Secondly, he thinks that the wedding is just a formality, and there is no need to spend too much money, so forget it, and there is no need to win face.

In his view, Lu Qing loves vanity and regards the wedding as a show-off capital. His mind is not simple. Even if she goes home, she can't live in peace.

Most importantly, he can't allow Lu Qing to brush his parents' faces.

"I don't want to provide tea at the wedding. It's good to get married and go home. My mother recovered from a serious illness and came here to see her daughter-in-law's face? Does she deserve it? " In this case, men have no affection for Lu Qing.

About what Lu Qing said: "I thought about not having a wedding at first, but his parents didn't agree."

Men also have a set of rhetoric: "neighbors do this, but only our family doesn't, right?" Again, go through the motions and get along. This is not the time for swelling and obesity. "

03 "I was right, I didn't get the respect I deserved."

Nowadays, it is hard to imagine that both the woman and the man think they are right.

They each have their own reasons and difficulties.

Lu Qing's father said: "Our daughter didn't grow up in a luxurious environment, at least she didn't lack food and drink since she was a child. This is just a wedding. If the man has no money at home, he can talk to us. What's wrong? " Why cheat? "

The man's mother said, "This daughter-in-law is too terrible to be wronged. She only knows how to pay attention to ostentation and extravagance. This giant Buddha can't be accommodated in our small family. "

It can be seen that the two sides never thought of bowing to each other and apologizing for their misconduct.

In fact, this incident can also reflect how most marriages go from falling in love to breaking up. The root cause is that they don't understand, respect or understand each other.

Everyone will only consider the problem from their own point of view, and never want to bend down to see what the other party has lost and compromised. So nervous and opinionated, there will be no good result.

If this divorce is good for both parties, there is no need to care about the eyes of strangers.

After all, as long as you feel good, that's good.