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15 yuan/hour virtual girlfriend: lesbians, porn actors and middle-aged men come to me to talk to me

1. Virtual boyfriend, valid for half an hour

About It was three or four years ago that I first came into contact with the concept of virtual lovers. At that time, I was just searching for 2D products on Taobao, and saw an entry for 2D lovers in the related search. I clicked in and took a look, only to find out that the so-called two-dimensional lover means that someone can pretend to be your boyfriend or girlfriend online, chat with you, and listen to what you say.

I also found that the virtual lovers in these stores are billed by time, and there are two forms of voice chat or text chat. They are all marked with various types and price points based on different sound characteristics, such as Uncle Qing's warm male voice, cool male voice, and little milk dog voice, etc.

I picked the cheapest one at that time and bought half an hour of text chat. After placing the order, I added the person’s WeChat account. I thought he would really chat with me in a boyfriend tone, but it turned out that he was just chatting with me about some very common topics, such as age, occupation, and the like.

Later, I bought some more expensive virtual boyfriends and tried voice services, but overall the user experience was not very good.

I majored in film and television, and that semester, I happened to have to submit a documentary assignment. At that time, I wanted to interview a few people who were virtual boyfriends and make a short documentary. But for privacy reasons, the virtual boyfriends I contacted declined my interview. I decided to change my perspective and experience what it is like to be a virtual lover, and what those who buy virtual lovers think.

So, I found a Taobao store that sells virtual lovers and applied to become a virtual girlfriend for 15 yuan an hour.

2. Can you call me sister?

One week after it was launched, I received my first customer as a virtual girlfriend.

That day, a friend of mine came to Shanghai from other places to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and I stayed in the hotel with her. At about 11 o'clock in the evening, the owner of the Taobao store suddenly sent me a message, saying that she had received a strange order. The order was from a woman, requesting to purchase a virtual girlfriend service. She guessed that the other party might be a lesbian and asked me Are you willing to take orders? I said, I can accept it.

After taking the order, the store owner sent me the customer’s number. I put on my clothes, walked to the hotel corridor, and dialed the number.

After the call was connected, a hoarse female voice came from the other party, and the background sound was a bit noisy.

I said: Hello, where are you?

She said: I am at the bar, I haven’t finished my drink yet.

It sounds like this person is obviously drunk.

I said: When are you going to go home?

She said: I will go home in a moment.

Then she started chatting with me, asking me how old I was and what I did. I answered her truthfully.

After a few minutes, I heard the sound of people going up the stairs, so I asked, have you gone home? She said, yes, I have gone home.

Then she began to tell me her own experience. She is 35 years old and a nurse. Two years ago, her husband cheated on her and they divorced. Later, she met a family member of a patient in the hospital. The family member was a lesbian. He fell in love with her and had a crush on her. After two years together, that woman also cheated on her.

After that, she fell into deeper pain. No one around her knew she was a lesbian, and she didn't dare to tell anyone about it, so she could only get drunk every night.

After a while, she asked, can you call me sister?

Hearing this request, I felt a little uncomfortable. A man suddenly asked me to call him husband. The store owner actually reminded me before that if the customer makes any unacceptable demands to me, we can cancel the order.

Then, I asked, can I stop barking? She started to act like a baby and said, just bark. I reluctantly called my sister.

Then she asked, can I make another small request? Can you send me a pair of your underwear? I said, this should not be possible. At this time, her one-hour time limit for purchasing was almost up, so I ended the call hastily.

3. Hello, what do you think about hooking up?

Half a month later, I received my second order, this time from a man.

After the voice call was connected, he didn’t exchange too many greetings. He asked me one sentence at the beginning, what do you think about hooking up?

I said, do you have it? Is there anything you can't figure out?

He told me that he was a nine-to-five office worker. Growing up, he had been a good boy in the eyes of his parents and teachers, and a warm man in the eyes of his colleagues. They probably never imagined that someone like him would hook up again and again. But the problem is, he has no way to stop himself from doing it. Every time after an appointment, he couldn't accept himself, but he would still make an appointment next time.

I asked a question that I was very curious about: When you have sex, who will pay for the room?

He said, it depends on the situation. In the beginning, he would take the initiative to pay. But later, he discovered that some girls looked completely different in real life and in the photos, so he kept an eye out. If the girl was beautiful, he would take the initiative to pay; if not, he would offer AA.

He said, I really want to stop, but I can't control myself. He had no way to talk to anyone about it, so he could only ask a stranger to see what he thought about hooking up. If that person told him that hooking up was an acceptable thing, he might Feel better.

After chatting for an hour, I felt that his anxiety was still there.

4. 195.95.25.22.

The funniest order I ever received happened much later. At that time, I had been my virtual girlfriend for more than half a year. .

After receiving the order, I added the person’s WeChat account. I found that his WeChat signature line had a very strange line of numbers written in it, which looked like an IP address: 195.95.25.22.

After the voice call was connected, the other party said two sentences. He asked with an accent, are you from Xinjiang?

He said: Yes, we should hug each other tightly like pomegranate seeds.

I said: What do you mean?

He said: We will have this slogan posted in the streets and alleys of Xinjiang.

By the way, I later went to Xinjiang and found that this slogan did exist on the streets.

I asked him, what do you do?

He said, I am in the film and television industry, the Internet type, a bit of a service.

After listening to it and thinking about it, I asked half-jokingly, are you an AV person?

He said, yes, I am an AV person.

Oh my god! This is the first AV actor I have come into contact with in my life. My curiosity was immediately piqued.

He told me that he came to Shanghai from Xinjiang to study at university. After graduation, he did not find a suitable job. By chance, he signed a contract with an AV company, and acted in AVs with a little plot. In order to prevent being recognized by acquaintances, he only filmed the action parts, and the scenes that required showing his face were performed by other actors.

Later, he asked me how tall I was. I said, 1.63 meters. He said, oh, then you are a second-degree disabled person. I said, how tall are you? He said, 1.95 meters.

I suddenly realized that the first number in his signature column was 195, so I asked him what the following numbers meant. He said, I am 195 centimeters tall, 95 kilograms in weight, 25 years old, and 22 centimeters long. I said, oh.

He said, do you have any idea about 22 centimeters? I said, no. He said, then look down at your arms. I looked down and for the first time in my life, I had an idea of ??22 centimeters.

I asked him, are you still filming recently? He said, I will start work in seven hours. I am taking a break now. I feel bored and want to find someone to talk to.

5. Can I subscribe for a year?

I usually receive a business every two or three months. I found that the number of customers who come to buy virtual girlfriend services is very concentrated, and most of them are office workers in their twenties. What’s even weirder is that unlike the PhoneSex service I imagined in Europe and the United States, people who buy virtual girlfriends on Taobao don’t really ask you to role-play. They are more looking for a tree hole to talk to.

In addition, most of the men I met who chatted with me were single and living alone, and only one was a married man.

The married man was probably in his forties and had a six- or seven-year-old child.

The whole time we were on the phone, he was telling me how bad his marriage was. He said that he didn't love his wife, but he couldn't manage his own life at all, so he couldn't live without her. He felt that his marriage was a tomb that restricted his freedom.

I asked him, do you want to reconcile with your wife or divorce her? He said, I can't divorce because it's difficult to separate the business.

At the end, he asked, can I keep you for a year and chat with you every night. I said, it’s better not to give it up.

After the order ended, I told the shopkeeper that the man just said he would cover my order for a year. The shop owner asked, do you want to pick it up? I said, no, I really don’t want to listen to a middle-aged man complaining about the failure of his marriage every night.

After that day, the shop owner increased the price to 30 yuan an hour.

6. The Business of Selling Illusions

I have been a virtual girlfriend on and off for two years. Later, I no longer planned to make any documentaries. I just used this to collect some creative inspiration.

To be honest, when I first started doing this, I did it out of curiosity. But later on, I felt that this incident was really sad and nihilistic.

Most of the people who come to chat with me have done things in life that are not understood or recognized, so they want to find a stranger to chat with. If the stranger says, this If something is acceptable, they may feel better.

But after the conversation, their problems still existed and there had been no essential changes. During the hour of chatting, the illusion he wanted from me, a stranger, seemed to be enough for them, even if it was false.

This article comes from the WeChat public account: Story FM (ID: story_fm), author: Shen Di