If one day, you find that men can't give you love, what three things do you insist on doing?

If one day, you find that men can't give you love, what three things do you insist on doing? First, manipulate your own mentality. Freud divided people into three levels: true self, id and superego. The true self follows the standard of happiness and represents the more initial part of people's hearts. I am looking for social moral standards, the moral bottom line for people to treat others, and I can achieve the goal of self-control. The superego is the true meaning of human beings and represents the most extraordinary part.

When women feel that men can't give their feelings, they must insist on manipulating their own mentality. You need to find out whether you are tired of each other or because they really can't give you the feelings you want. If it is the former, it is inevitable for women to choose to separate, so at this time, women should manipulate their own id thoughts and calm themselves down. There is nothing wrong with clinging to your heart, but only if you are sober enough.

Second, persevere to make yourself better. When women find that men can't give their feelings, a large number of women choose self-destruction. They lack the working ability of their lovers and become more and more listless. Women must be clear that falling in love with someone is not terrible. The terrible thing is that she can't love others anymore. When a woman is hurt by emotion, or falls in love with someone she shouldn't love, the smart behavior is to persist in making herself better. Have a tenacious heart and a confidence to remold yourself.

Only when women get better can they impress more successful people. In social psychology, the effect of same-sex repulsion is mostly caused by the mutual affection effect, that is, tongue-tied lovers will cause satisfaction.

Third, perseverance has a proactive and cheerful inner woman. After falling in love with a man, she looks forward to her life. All this is the power of love. Women will cut through thorns because of love, but suddenly one day they find that love is gone, or all bubbles, and women will collapse. At this time, no matter how sad, helpless or even cold, you need to stick to it with a positive and cheerful heart.

Depression is like a murderer, which has a very bad influence on people and is easy to cause the "cat kicking effect". One bad mentality will lead to the evolution of the next bad mentality. In short, everyone has a different definition of love, or their own investment is different. When women find that men don't have their own feelings, they must stick to these three things, and then they must resolutely choose where to go. Love must be comfortable and natural, and each other can give each other the highest comfort. If you can't give what others want, you don't have to.