Eva exchanged Christmas presents in kindergarten, Lego exchanged thousands of dollars for cheap greeting cards, but Ma Bao refused to return them.

To say which stage of children's school has the strongest festive atmosphere, kindergarten is definitely the first one. After all, kindergarten children have no study burden, and it is common to have no holiday activities.

Recently, during the "Shuang Dan" Festival at Christmas and New Year's Day, many children have a strong festive atmosphere, but some parents are not happy, and some parents even cry because their children have a holiday.

Every Christmas, Orange Orange's international kindergarten will hold some grand activities, such as English speech contest, Christmas theme clothing catwalk, Christmas garden activities and so on. Let the children feel the western New Year culture, and every activity will have a part of exchanging gifts.

The children carefully prepared a gift. When exchanging gifts, teachers will prepare pairs of brands to draw lots for children, and children with the same number will be drawn to exchange gifts.

Such activities can bring great surprises to children, because children don't know who will receive the gift and what gift, but mother orange is "frightened" by the gift.

Orange orange only went to kindergarten this year, and the whole family attached great importance to the tasks assigned by the teacher. After the notice of this activity was issued, Orange and the children discussed the preparation of gifts, and finally decided to buy a set of Lego toys worth more than 1000 yuan, carefully packaged and brought to the kindergarten for the children.

After the activity, Orange Orange took the gift home for her mother to see. At first glance, mother orange was dumbfounded. She spent more than 1000 yuan on the gift, but actually got a "cheap" greeting card. This greeting card doesn't even have the simplest packaging, not even a logo; The name of the businessman is on the card. And the congratulatory message written by the child is also very simple and crooked.

Orange orange is also very unhappy to receive such a gift. After all, the Lego he chose is what he has been waiting for for for a long time. Mother Orange couldn't help but check the price of this brand of greeting cards online, but she didn't reach 10 yuan, and suddenly felt very unbalanced. The more she thinks about it, the angrier she gets. She can only secretly wipe her tears behind her child's back.

After asking her son the name of the gift-giving child, Mother Orange sent a photo of the greeting card in the group, asking the child's mother to talk to her, saying that she got a gift of more than 1000 yuan for a greeting card that cost less than10, which was careless. I hope the other mother can talk to the child and return Lego to the orange.

But mother orange didn't expect that the other parents euphemistically said that this was a school activity and it was not good to take back the exchanged gifts. So, the two sides quarreled in the group on this issue!

Some parents, including mother orange, believe that it is an important ceremony for children to give gifts to each other, which can help children make more good friends. Therefore, we should carefully choose gifts, as long as the children like them, not too expensive at all.

These parents are very attentive to the gifts prepared by their children and have high expectations for the gifts returned by their children, because in their view, it is lucky to exchange cheap gifts for gifts, and it is unfair to children not to buy expensive gifts.

Some parents also believe that children should be careful and simple in giving gifts. A greeting card and a bunch of handmade flowers can be used as gifts for children. Giving gifts to each other should pay more attention to sincerity and intention, so that children can learn to share, rather than fight for price. In particular, parents should not buy such random gifts too expensive.

Preparing expensive gifts for children is easy to cause children's comparison psychology, and it is also easy to lead to imbalance between children and parents, so the gift is best to be simple!

1. Tell children the meaning of giving gifts.

If parents want their children not to compare gifts, they should educate them in advance and tell them that gifts are not given to show how rich they are at home, and the more expensive the gift, the better. Paying attention to the heart is the best gift.

Talk to children more, and children will not have the idea of keeping up with the joneses.

2. Parents ventilate each other

For activities like exchanging gifts, parents can learn the rules first. If the object of the gift is clear, parents can contact their children's parents, and adults can discuss the scope of the gift privately, such as agreeing on the price. At the same time, we can learn about each other's favorite gifts and tell them what they like, so as to help them choose gifts.

Other gift-giving situations are also applicable. It is best for parents in the class to reach a reasonable understanding of giving gifts.

3. Choose the right gift with your child.

It's not easy to choose a gift. Gifts are from children, so it's best to choose them with them. Parents with more time can also make some meaningful gifts with their children, such as making graffiti photo frames, eternal flowers, etc., and preparing small greeting cards to write blessings. No child will casually refuse an interesting gift!

When choosing a gift for others, you should really pay attention to the fact that the price of the gift should be within your ability. Since the gift is for others, don't expect high returns. If so, you can choose a cheap gift for each other with your child!

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