Enneagram - Giving Type 2

The biggest characteristic of the giving type No. 2 is that they enjoy helping others and are willing to pay for others.

Self-portrait No. 2 is like the warm spring sun, enthusiastic and friendly, making people feel warm. It is a sunny, brilliant and colorful picture.

Declaration No. 2, as long as you help others, life will be meaningful; as long as you give warmth to others, life will be happy; if I can help you, I will be happy.

The misunderstanding of No. 2 is that they are willing to contribute, but not everyone needs it. When they cannot see the joy of receiving, No. 2 will fall into depression.

Characteristics of No. 2: giving, giving, attaching importance to giving, full of love, and kindness, but often ignore their own feelings and are used to paying attention to others. It can also be said that giving is done in order to receive something in return or to control others. Type 2s will feel sad when they don't get the same response.

The high-level mentality of No. 2 is freedom, and his character is humility.

In communication with No. 2, No. 2 values ??interpersonal relationships, is able to understand and tolerate others, and meets the needs of others. They give in order to receive something in return. Number 2 will ask for recognition, praise, praise and love from others.

When getting along with No. 2, you should express your gratitude for his help, and promptly refuse his help when it is not needed to protect No. 2's strong self-esteem.

Boss No. 2 is always good at creating a warm and comfortable working environment at work, discovering employee problems and solving them. They are gentle, warm, approachable, loving and compassionate.

Boss No. 2 likes obedient people. They seem to be selfless, but in fact they habitually control others in order to win their hearts. When getting along with Boss No. 2, you should maintain regular interactions to enhance trust and understanding, be able to do what he likes, and gain the boss's appreciation and recognition.

Employee No. 2 found that the employees No. 2 around him were proactive and conscientious in their work. They often helped colleagues solve difficulties and problems and had the spirit of self-sacrifice. Therefore, you should often communicate and encourage Employee No. 2, which can further promote enthusiasm for work

Recognize the ability of Employee No. 2 instead of suppressing or feeling threatened, because No. 2 is used to dedication and they would rather do Behind the scenes, he will not come to the stage.

No. 2 builds a team. If No. 2 wants to improve their combat effectiveness, they must pay more attention to themselves and separate themselves from unnecessary trivial matters.

Advantages: Number 2 can unite the team, bring everyone together, give full play to everyone's strengths, and create brilliance for the work. Their serious and responsible attitude, mutual trust and support with employees are worth learning.

Disadvantages: No. 2 often hesitates and hesitates. They pay too much attention to other people's emotions and evaluations, which makes them lose their backbone. Sometimes they are not decisive enough, lack clear phased planning, and have unclear arrangements for specific responsibilities and work content.

Representative No. 2, Timely Rain Song Jiang. Song Jiang has a complex personality and a very deep character, but his core personality is of the giving type. He was loyal, friendly, warm-hearted, and willing to help his brothers. Both Wu Song and Li Kui had received his help, and he treated the Liangshan brothers equally and respected them equally.

He also embodies the personality of giving for control. He is full of benevolence, justice and morality to the Liangshan brothers, but agreeing to the imperial edict has become a major failure in his life. Everyone has complaints in their hearts, but they just can't speak out. Everyone in Liangshan had a deep hatred against the imperial court. They were willing to follow Song Jiangnan to conquer Fangla just for the sake of justice.

Song Jiang longed for power, had lofty ambitions, and wanted to make contributions. He has the courage to help those in need, strong leadership and cohesion, the ability to make a career in troubled times, and an unyielding rebellious spirit. He freed Chao Gai, killed Yan Poxi, and attacked Zhujiazhuang three times, which all reflected his uniqueness.

The triple contradictions of fraternity for the Liangshan brothers, confusion about the future, and his own ambition made him get lost in the hypocrisy and temptation of the court, which led to the tragic ending of the Liangshan brothers.