A letter from parents encouraging their daughter.

Walking is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat. Parents' encouragement to their children is the biggest motivation for their progress. I sorted it out below, and welcome everyone to read it.

Tisch

Daughter:

In high school for more than two years, my mother knows that you study hard and live up to expectations. Do you still remember that your mother often told you to be modest, be kind to others, and be a man before you can write well? You did it. Not only do you get good grades, but you are also the "Baidu engine" in your class. You read widely, your calligraphy won prizes, your blackboard newspaper was first-class, you were an athlete, you sang plays and performed skits at the school art festival ... This is a good achievement, but your mother is more concerned about your behavior. She is glad to learn that you have been helping students in your class who are far from home. Every time I go to school, I see my classmates greeting you. The teacher likes you, and even the classmates in other classes know you and remember you. My mother is very happy. I know you did it yourself. You are so excellent and perfect. Mom is happy and proud of you.

Daughter, you will take the college entrance examination in June this year. My mother knows you're in a hurry, too. You are young and energetic. You stay up late and study hard, but you should also pay attention to your health. Every time I go home and see you studying at your desk, my mother has a lot of pain and heartache. My mother wants to talk to you, but she can't bear to disturb you. All she can do is silently send you a glass of milk and tell you to go to bed early. You have been studying hard since you entered senior three. There are always endless homework and review questions, and I can't see the relaxed and happy smile on my face. Mom is worried. We know that when you were recruited, you entered the key classes of provincial key high schools by one point. You must work harder than others to catch up. Some time ago, you said that your English was not very good, and you wanted to enroll in pilot education remedial classes. My mother disagrees a little, but she is not worried about the money. My mother is worried about your health, afraid that you can't stand it. But you said, "hard work pays off." . Watching your nervous school cram school rush back and forth, exhausted, my mother can do nothing. I really hate not being able to share the burden and study for you. Daughter, mother is also from senior three. Mom can understand your current mood and know more about your current situation. Daughter, please always remember that you are not fighting alone. Your mother is your strong backing. With your mother, you don't have to worry about anything. The college entrance examination is nothing. Be cool, have a good attitude and play normally. You are the best!

Daughter, youth is beautiful, just like the flower season. Cherish your youth and don't let time be empty!

May my daughter's youth be picturesque, poetic and picturesque, with no regrets and a bright life!

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My son Xing Zi:

Hello! Because there was a parent-teacher meeting last Sunday, I want to talk to you about my parents' worries in this ordinary but unusual way. There are three reasons why we only communicate with you in this way. First of all, it makes it easier for me to tell you something more organized. Second, the attitude is serious and solemn; The third is to attract your attention.

First of all, we believe you.

Star boy, if you pay a little attention to life, you will feel that time flies and you will be eighteen soon. Growing up, we never let you leave our sight. It can be said that you grew up happily in the gentle breeze and drizzle of your parents. Now you have grown up and become a graceful and lovely girl, completing the evolution from ugly duckling to white swan. Physical maturity does not mean your psychological maturity, because your psychological course is still short, there are not many twists and turns, you are still immature, and you need to go through storms, so when you encounter things that are not going well in your life and study; When you are depressed or even depressed, please communicate with us who love you in time, because your pain is also our pain, and your unhappiness will affect our judgment on life and even our quality of life, okay? My dear daughter, we are willing to be your friends and relieve your worries. As you get older, you gradually have your own judgment on the handling of various affairs. We have found a lot to be proud of from every bit of your life. Good love, quiet personality, persistence in ideals, these excellent qualities, let us have every reason to believe you. Under the temptation of being kind to our teachers, you will gradually become strong and mature in your efforts. Star, your mother and I will always support you and truly believe in you.

Second, we understand you.

Let's go back and talk about your understanding of high school study. Your high school life is an important stage in your life that cannot be ignored. This reminds me of the words of the writer Liu Qing, "Although the road of life is very long, there are often only a few steps, especially when people are young". Therefore, you should grasp this step in high school. If you take a wrong step because you despise wasting time, you will get the result that one step can't keep up with the other as the saying goes. It's no use beating your chest, and it's too late to regret it. This is especially true in high school. It can be said that you have grasped this period of high school study, formed good study habits and laid a good foundation for your long life. A nine-story platform, starting from a solid foundation, can best achieve a better future. Star boy, judging from your exam results, there is still potential to be tapped. Watching you enter high school, you have made progress. It can be said that we are positive about learning and cautious about ourselves. Here, I give you some suggestions, hoping you will be inspired or moved. As the idiom goes, learning is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat. What a good metaphor! A little progress, a little achievement, don't be complacent, even complacent, self-appreciation and self-enjoyment. I didn't know that when you were too young to stop, the "sunken ship" side had already passed Qian Fan. Needless to say, the story of the race between the tortoise and the hare is even clearer.

Son, we also know that studying in high school is really hard and tiring. Because this period is your physical and psychological growth period, you need not only rich nutrition, but also affection and caress. So every time you come home from school on Saturday and Sunday, your mother and I will never talk about studying unless you take the initiative to say that we will never ask. Your mother and I are discussing how to arrange your limited two-day life. The basic principle is to do whatever you want and eat whatever you want, so that you can enjoy the fun brought by your family at home, thus stimulating your greater enthusiasm for learning next week. This is only because you are an important part of our life. Ignoring you is indifference to life. Our efforts are happy and we have no complaints. Star boy, we really understand you.

Third, we love you.

Let's stick to the facts. Take the analysis of test scores as an example. Your teacher Wu objectively expressed his views on you and made suggestions based on your past performance. "You didn't try your best", you didn't devote yourself wholeheartedly to the preparation for the college entrance examination, and time waits for no one, son. You can have a whole year at most, and there is no time left. You can't leave a sigh of "the deceased is like a husband." In fact, the post-90s children are more active in thinking, more individual, more open-minded, have their own ideas, have a very broad vision and a wide range of knowledge. Admittedly, this is a very valuable aspect. However, due to the superiority of life and our excessive "help", you have also bred some very unhealthy behaviors, and you have not deeply understood the importance of learning. It is easy for you to give up when you encounter difficulties, which is a trivial matter in life. We can understand all this, because you are still a child in our eyes, but we must remind you or help you understand the stakes. This is our natural love for our son and our due responsibility. We must be responsible for your future. We also know that since you entered high school, you probably have a general goal in mind, right? Yes, as the slogan on the wall of your class says, "If you don't learn extensively and are determined to learn, you won't succeed." This is a sentence in the Book of Commandments written by Zhuge Liang to his son Zhuge Zhan. We also know that you are ambitious, but your lofty ambitions are based on indifference and hard work. Without down-to-earth efforts, no matter how big the ambition is, it will become too ambitious. As a parent, you always want your children to have a good future, and there will be more room for them to display their ambitions in the future. However, opportunities only favor those who are prepared. We try our best to provide you with a good study and living environment, so as not to regret your life and make your future brighter and more open. Xing Zi, as for your expectation, we can say, "Try your best to get the best result". Don't let both of us leave too many regrets because we didn't try our best at the most critical time in your life. "Young people don't work hard, but the boss is sad." The Millennium old adage is not alarmist. It is a fallacy summarized and practiced by predecessors in countless wasted years, which is not only unforgettable, but also inspiring. Son, no matter what the future outcome is, it is our proudest, most gratifying and most worrying thing that you can live a happy life. Xing Zi, your mother and I love you forever.

Son, do you know how touched you are when you speak so eloquently? I hope you will not turn the motivation of encouragement into a burden of progress, let alone our good expectations of you into a sense of guilt, which goes against our original intention for you, just as you wrote to us on the blackboard in the classroom: "Your upbringing is the source of my growth, your encouragement is the motivation of my progress, and I will repay you with all my sweat!" . Son, how well you speak, you know your position and responsibility, which is more important than anything else. Through these words, we seem to see your bright future. Having said so much, it's actually nothing. I just want to talk to you and have a heart-to-heart talk. You can't bear the psychological burden because of the deep meaning between the lines. Just be your father and cook a sumptuous dish. Eat more if you want, and eat less or not if you don't want. These delicious meals only represent our deep love and hope.

Write a poem to encourage you:

Xiang Peng Tianyu is ambitious.

Cheng Menxue lirenzuo bridge

Truth is hidden in thousands of books.

I'll be happy when the mileage runs out.

Father and mother kissed the book.

Friday, May 2 1 Sunday.

Tisso

WY's daughter:

I have a lot to say about your growth. I can say a lot from big principles to small details-I will give you more communication in the future, starting with your understanding and speaking ability. I have imagined what you will look like in the future and the road you will take in life. Most importantly, your life is more decent and leisurely than your mother and me, at least not worse than ours. Of course, this does not mean that your income must be high and you must live in a big house. This is just a state of life. However, this is all imagination. Back to reality, back to our present life, I found that my hope for you is actually very simple. To put it simply, mainly in the following aspects, we have achieved the following aspects: you are happy, we are happy, and our education for you is successful and great.

You will never be a tool for parents to show off. Including your grades and hobbies, your mother and I will only remind and guide you, but we will never give you any pressure. We are your parents, and our greatest hope is that you can be happy and cheerful, cultivate a survival skill within your hobby, and be able to withstand the pressure of work and life, nothing else. As for promoting to a higher position and making a fortune, they are all floating clouds.

Second, you won't do something you don't like. You won't learn piano, calligraphy and painting like other children. You can only do these things if you like. I don't care about your grades until you go to kindergarten, including the third grade of primary school. I don't care how many words you can know or recite. I think it's boring, even a little retarded. During this time, you just need to laugh happily, all kinds of laughter. My mother and I won't know your grades until after the fourth grade. But your mother and I will pay more attention to your personality, your quality, your understanding of things and your own view of society, and especially form a critical spirit to criticize everything you think is abnormal. Only in this way can you be mature, accurate and form principles. You can learn to take responsibility and understand the way the world and society work.

Third, your future should not be too utilitarian. The purpose of life is nothing more than freedom and happiness, and nothing else is important. Indifferent to fame and fortune, seeking a pure land of life that belongs to you. Laugh at the society, talk about life, live happily, poetically and healthily, don't be too tired or too idle, live moderately, and you need to grasp and adjust the degree. Your future teacher will not teach you these things, and neither will your leader.

The first lesson in life is also a compulsory course you have to take every day-safety. In this world, the premise of our life is security. Your mother and I will definitely teach you the common sense of safety in case of earthquake, fire and flood. You will never engage in an unsafe occupation, especially agriculture. I am a farmer. I like doing farm work, but I don't like the dangers of agriculture. I fell off your grandfather's tricycle ... You should learn to be safe when driving and cycling in the future, and be ready to escape at any time.

About your future feelings. Don't fall in love until 18. You can have your own feelings, but you can't really love with your heart After you 18 years old, you must fall in love, otherwise your youth will not be perfect. After 18, parents will not interfere in your love life. I won't treat you as a treasure just because you are my only daughter, and I won't be reluctant to let you go. You need to have your own life. Even if there is misfortune in life, it has nothing to do with parents. You should be responsible for your own life. We are no longer responsible.

You don't have to worry about our future. You don't have to "go home often" when you are busy. We are not so sentimental and fragile. I think even when we are 70 or 80 years old, we will still have our own lives. If our life in later years is bleak, it can only show that our life is boring and has nothing to do with you. Of course, the principle is that we understand that you can be unfilial. Because, I always think that filial piety and unfilial are false propositions, and I care more about our true feelings besides filial piety.

About others, you don't need to ask others what to do-this is the basis of tolerance. In this world, no one can really be responsible for you except yourself and your parents. Therefore, you have no right to ask others to be saints, you just need to be strict with yourself.

Eight things in life, ten things are not satisfactory. Survival is definitely a blue sky, and there is no hurdle. Including the life and death of people around you, including your mother and me. Life goes on, the sun will still rise the next day, the new life is still sunny, and you still need all kinds of smiles on your face.

I just want so much now, so let's write so much first. Think later, write later, and write when you can't remember. I believe that these are enough for you to work hard for the first half of your life, and I believe that these can already cope with all kinds of life in the future.

Finally, I hope you can grow up happily.

XXX

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