Qingming Thoughts on Life: If you were in heaven, how would you like future generations to pay homage to you?

This topic is a bit heavy.

If I are in heaven (if I can go to heaven), I hope that my children can think of their mother with warmth and happiness in their spare time. That is enough.

If they don’t remember me and live a good life, then I will be very content.

When my grandfather was alive, he often told us: Death is like a lamp going out. Once a person dies, he knows nothing. Everything in his life disappears together with his breath, body and soul.

If my descendants insist on using a memorial method, I hope there will be a tree, preferably a tree that can bloom and bear fruit, preferably a pear tree, because I like pear flowers. .

Come and see me during the Qingming Festival, water it, loosen the soil, and don’t burn the paper. I’m afraid of the smoke.

Then, from a distance, I watched my children and their children playing under the tree, flying kites, playing ball, chasing and playing.

At noon, when they were tired from playing, they spread out the tablecloth, spread out all kinds of delicacies, and had a supper party under the tree.

If their greedy mother still eats, she will come and take a bite, but don’t scare the children.

When you leave, please fold a pear blossom and take it home.

The wind blows and the petals are like rain. That is mother's longing for them.

In autumn, when the sky is high and the clouds are clear, they come to play like in spring, and pick some pears to take home, which are gifts from their mother.

So much for asking.

But isn’t it difficult to implement? In such a big city, it is not easy to find a place where you can grow pear trees.