How to treat the change of customs proposed by Central No.1?

This is a topic in Document No.1 in 2023, and it is also the 20th consecutive year that Document No.1 of the Central Committee focused on the "three rural issues" in China. In terms of rural governance, the document specifically mentions that it is necessary to "promote the pilot reform of rural marriage customs and funeral customs, and carry out special governance of outstanding problems in key areas such as high-priced bride price and large-scale operation."

Then in the past year, some areas did achieve outstanding results, but the skyrocketing bride price was not a day's work, and the rectification work has a long way to go!

For example, beside me, a few days ago.

At the beginning of February 2023, the positioning coordinates were Zhoukou, Henan.

At that time, on the day of engagement, I took a188,000 cash bride price, and then I took several thousand pieces of things in a box (five domestic products, six boxes of navy should not be less than 5,000).

Before that, I had to take my wife to buy gold jewelry, and I spent 30 thousand that day!

Then I heard that from now on until my daughter gets married, there will still be an expense (I don't know much about buying furniture and home appliances), which will be 30 thousand to 40 thousand.

So just marry this girl into the door, the tooling cost can't be less than three hundred thousand! ! !

So what is the price of the dark side? When the two sides meet, the man's basic chip (there is a new building in his hometown+buying a house in another city+having a car+saving money+strong parents+no brothers+no big debts must be made clear)

These are all money spent on invisibility, but if you think you two have known each other for a long time and are stronger than gold, these things can be overcome. Then you are all wet. Now, some of the money that should be spent is not spent in the father-in-law's house. That's not a year or two. How many in-laws broke up over money?

Who are you reasoning with, your future mother-in-law Funny, after all, my daughter grew up with hardships. You have no money and your family condition is not good. How can she trust to throw her little cotton-padded jacket into the kennel?

A little harsh, but is there any way to change it?

It is said that the rural folk customs are simple, and everyone is stupid.

I don't think they are stupid when they see money.

Nowadays, the sky-high bride price is nothing more than endless comparison and abnormal love for children.

But let's be sober and think about it from another angle.

If you have a beloved daughter, can you give her to a poor man without thinking?

Therefore, it is ridiculous and helpless to punish the bride price.

But think about it carefully, why not punish the house price, why not punish the car purchase tax, why not punish the problem of low wages and difficult employment?

To put it bluntly, those people will shout slogans from time to time, fool you with beautiful words for two days, and then let you go to work and have sex.

So is the bride price expensive? Do you still think these things are expensive?

After all, people are here to spend the rest of their lives with you and have children!

Finally, I present a sober quotation from netizens:

{The bride price should be used by two families to support a new family, not to help the poor accurately! }