How about these three types of short messages? What kind of message do you need?

The first choice is 3 (the truest care needs persistence to be moved), the second choice is 2 (boasting too much is hypocritical), and the last choice is 1 (because talking too much is easy to be mistaken for self-righteousness and has a bad impression)! In fact, as long as we adhere to the third category, it is enough, and it is the best. As for the second category 1, it depends.