It's much easier to get along with boyfriends.

The principle of getting along with boyfriends

Language: "Say more good things and say less bad things"

Busy, before going out, he has to report to the newspaper. He feels insecure. Chatting is to have fun, share more interesting things, be humorous, express more love, miss, care, praise, worship more modal particles and expression packs, and stop using choking language. Affirm what he said first, think about it later, don't talk about his thoughts, don't talk about his predecessor, refuse the cold war, don't break up, don't share his private life too much, and don't tell his parents.

If there is any real contradiction, communicate by phone or video. Don't type (calm down for one night first). Communicate realistically. Don't say "you always" and wait for the conclusion.

Attitude: "almost enough" and "the way to accept his lover" can't solve the emotional stability. Don't get angry easily. There are contradictions. Stop being a mom. Excessive nagging and accusations will only make people feel disgusted, lower their expectations, refuse to imagine, and accept the real him, including his shortcomings. He has work pressure and helplessness. Listen more, respect more, understand and give each other space, and accept occasional indifference and nothing to say (self-precipitation period). What will make me angry?

He knows exactly what makes me angry. If he did, just mention it. He can feel whether I am good or not, and there is no need to force it.

Habit: Love needs running-in and experience. "A love diary, recorded the good and bad things he did to me, and the reason why he was angry every time. Communicate with him more, listen to his opinions, gently reduce his thoughts when giving him opinions, don't make any decisions at night, and occasionally prepare some small surprises and romance. The most important thing is to plan something we can do together and ask his advice.

Principle: If you break the principle, there is no need to continue.

Love yourself first, have your own life and pay attention to self-improvement (academic career). My change is not for anyone, but for myself. He loves me and makes me love myself more and become better and happier.

Random thoughts

Through this love, exercise your endurance, improve your social ability, improve your emotional ability, learn to understand and understand, and improve your emotional intelligence.