Why do Kobe fans say that his wife Vanessa is flirting, dissolute and unfaithful?

Lead: Is our love for Kobe somewhat overbearing and unreasonable? Ask yourself!

There is a very special day, which is Kobe's birthday. Many NBA stars are remembering Kobe, and countless Kobe fans around the world are thinking about Kobe, including Kobe's widow Vanessa and Kobe's daughters.

However, some netizens left a message to Vanessa saying, "Vanessa, please, you don't love Kobe at all." Some words are quite spicy and even personal. What's going on here?

It turned out that after Kobe's death, Kobe's wife Vanessa was exposed by the media to have a new relationship after several months of pain. First of all, it is reported that Kobe's bones are not cold, and the billionaire's wife is pursued by many NBA stars, and even the threshold is broken.

This news was exposed on the Internet about five months after Kobe's death. According to American media reports, after Kobe's death, Vanessa received many private letters from suitors, most of whom were well-known professional players, including two NBA Hall of Famers and a well-known commentator!

According to the gossip media Sports Gossip, after Kobe's death, the threshold of Vanessa's family was almost trampled. It is said that many people approach Vanessa in the name of comfort, but in fact they want to date her.

Secondly, about half a year after Kobe's death, Vanessa posted photos of herself and her eldest daughter Nana on social platforms, thanking the photographer and praising her daughter for "having the same eyes as her father". In this group of photos, Vanessa is quite sexy, covering half of her face with her hair, and her long wavy black hair looks charming. However, some netizens commented below:

"Kobe died less than half a year ago, can he still smile so brightly?" "Family died and idea to take pictures? I can't play any more. " "Haha, it's so cold-blooded to live as if nothing had happened so soon."

A storm made Vanessa criticized by netizens for the news that her new love was suspected of being exposed. The news says Vanessa seems to have a new relationship. It turned out that Vanessa received two bunches of roses and called each other baby. The interaction between the two sides is sweet. The news also said that time passed quickly, and it had been some time since Kobe died. Vanessa, his widow, even generously accepted the roses sent by the macho man, which attracted the attention of fans.

Don't even think about it. The comment area must be full of malicious messages. It turns out that this macho man is Vanessa's friend. Flowers sent by friends are very common in American culture, but in the eyes of the media, they have become a manifestation of tone, laziness and disloyalty.

It seems that after Kobe's death, the most painful thing was his wife Vanessa. She has to endure not only the pain of losing her husband and daughter, but also the criticism of netizens. Countless fans around the world have devoted their fanatical love for Kobe Bryant to caring for his wife Vanessa. In their logic, without Kobe, Vanessa can't have fun for the rest of her life, let alone be a partner.

Vanessa became the most painful person in the netizen attack. She seems to want to live as netizens think. However, it is despicable and narrow-minded to think that those who blindly ask for the loss of their loved ones can only spend the rest of their lives in the haze of sadness.

Poor Vanessa, now she faces a silent "justice trial": you can't have happiness anymore. This is naked cyber language violence and a very despicable moral kidnapping. It is wrapped in seemingly just words, but it is actually just a narrow carnival of villains.

This kind of moral kidnapping is really terrible. Kobe Bryant has brought beautiful youthful memories to countless fans. After his death, his family was severely criticized and abused by netizens. I don't think if Kobe were in heaven, he would never see Vanessa in such pain. As a man who loves Vanessa deeply, Kobe must want to see Vanessa live happily for the rest of her life without him, and still have the courage to face a new life positively. But Kobe's beautiful vision has now changed beyond recognition, which is the great destructive power brought by moral kidnapping.

Do we see this kind of moral kidnapping rarely in China?

For example, Jason Wu's patriotic film "Wolf Warriors 2" has earned billions of dollars at the box office. When the earthquake disaster occurred in China, Jason Wu suffered a "collective robbery" of cyber moral kidnapping. Some netizens said: "Now that the country is in trouble, Jason Wu should donate 100 million yuan, otherwise it will live up to everyone's expectations of you."

For example, at the beginning of the epidemic in 2020, celebrity artists in the circle donated money to help Wuhan. Many fans Ying Yuanhui also donated money and materials in the name of their idols, but they were kidnapped by netizens. For example, Jackie Chan posted on his personal homepage and asked for 6.5438+0 million yuan in the dark, thanking individuals or institutions that have developed specific drugs. Some netizens said that they left a message in the message area, "Jackie Chan, you should reward100,000, which is more positive, and100,000 is also quite a lot. Big brother is so thoughtful! " The number of likes is up to 600. This kind of behavior is obviously a moral kidnapping, and it is believed that stars with high incomes should donate more.

Also scolded were Deng Chao and Huang Xiaoming, who collectively received moral kidnapping donations from netizens.

The most pitiful thing is Guo, who keeps a low profile. Guo privately donated 200,000 yuan to Wuhan, but he didn't make it public. At this time, some netizens have been questioning "why not donate" and finally have to prove themselves by showing proof of donation.

Guo said that "a person's body can be cured if he is ill, but if he is ill, his conscience will be destroyed", from which it is not difficult to see how helpless Guo is.

Moral kidnapping is a disaster and a sorrow that destroys conscience. However, too many people around us are suffering from moral kidnapping: to be admitted to a university, you must have a good job, get married at the age of 28, have 500 thousand over 30, and have children after marriage. ...

Silent moral kidnapping makes people suffocate and even more sad. Back to this article, now that Kobe has passed away, Vanessa has pulled herself together and faced life positively. Isn't that what everyone wants to see? Sri lankans have passed away, but the living must continue.

Live well, with Kobe's love and your share. I don't think what Kobe wants to see is a Vanessa who has spent her life in Lacrimosa.

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