Miscellaneous Notes on Worldly Affairs (7) How can there be gods in the world if we don’t know the time in the mountains? This is a couplet from Xiangshan in Beijing

Miscellaneous Notes on Worldly Affairs (7) If you don’t know the years in the mountains, how can there be gods in the world? This is a couplet found in a residence in Xiangshan, Beijing. It is very wonderful to read carefully.

*There may be villains in and around you. Ways to deal with villains: 1. Say hello frequently and talk less. 2． Do not take the initiative to interact with others, but do not refuse to interact with them 3. Not a deep friendship, but not an end of friendship.

4. You can give benefits, but you can't take advantage of villains. 5. Don't enter the circle of villains, and don't let villains know your own domain and soul.

6. Don't help, don't block, don't advise, don't participate, don't discuss, just let it develop, let it fend for itself.

* Competition between people: On the surface it is: house·car·money·face, the core competition is: ability·resources·connections·circle.

The essential competition is: thinking·cognition·value·character.

*The pattern of people. If you charge 100 yuan a day and someone scolds you, you will be very angry. If you charge 1,000 yuan a day and someone scolds you, you will be disdainful. If you charge 10,000 yuan a day and someone scolds you, you will not care or even sympathize. People who scold you!

Only when people have money can they have a pattern. When people have money, they will be generous. The poor will be treacherous, and the rich will lead to conscience. All your troubles come from too low income; you can only strengthen yourself. , Only by improving your own understanding and structure can you make yourself invulnerable to all kinds of poisons.

* Great enlightenment. A radiologist in a certain hospital was diagnosed with liver cancer during a unit physical examination. Due to his work, he had heard and witnessed too many failed cases and decided to give up treatment.

Then, he kept secret from everyone and insisted on going to work normally every day. Later, when his condition worsened, he told his wife, but he still did not disclose it to anyone else. In the next few months, he wrote a letter to each of his relatives, told his elder brother and younger brother about his funeral and expressed his views on life and death. Then he took the sleeping pills he had prepared in the garage alone. Fell asleep forever on the old recliner.

His last words were that he owed no favors and was worried that his wife would not be able to pay back the debt because she was a foreigner. If he did not die at home, he was worried that his family would not be safe living there. If he did not buy a cemetery, his ashes would be scattered in the sea.

* What kind of noble people can you meet? It breaks your original thinking, improves your understanding, and then improves your own realm!

That’s it!

Have firm faith and become good yourself, and you will definitely meet that person.

*The stock market has plummeted recently, and the screen is full of green and wailing, which is terrible to watch. Yesterday I was browsing Toutiao and saw a good article by someone: 1. Only buy, don’t sell in the middle. The shortest holding period is eight years. This operation avoids frequent entry and exit, which requires a lot of concentration. 2. Stay away after buying, do not watch the market, and ignore fluctuations. Just do three actions: pick stocks, buy high-quality stocks at a relatively reasonable valuation, then sit back and wait, and hold them for the long term. 3. The stock market is an amplifier that tests human nature. It exposes the weaknesses of human nature. Greed and fear are always present, as well as joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. Most investors are gamblers. When they lose money, they do not reflect and summarize, and they do not have a long memory. It can be said that they are not worthy of pity. A true wise man is a lazy person who works hard at ordinary times and has his own interests and hobbies in his spare time. Work is a continuous source of stock market expansion.

* Come and listen to the emotional voice of a single senior citizen.

Don’t worry, prepare to celebrate the New Year alone. In this life, a person changes from one person to two people, then to three people, and after many years, he becomes two people, and then becomes one person again!

Anyone who comes to the world is alone until the end of the play, and any changes in the middle are processes. The era of having children and grandchildren in the house has passed, now everyone is playing alone, and one person's loneliness has become the norm.

The changes in the people around me gave me a taste of what life is like, sweet, sour, bitter, spicy to the point of losing all feeling and numbness. This is life.

It’s actually very lonely to be alone during the holidays, there’s nothing you can do about it! My wife passed away more than ten years ago and I can only live with my daughter. I moved from Shanghai to Hangzhou. There are no familiar people or things, so I can only persuade myself to adapt and adapt again.

Once upon a Spring Festival, I used one of my work mobile phones to send myself a text message on my other mobile phone, wishing myself a happy Spring Festival.

My hometown is where I feel at ease. The rest of my life is very precious. Treat yourself well, take it one day at a time, and just get used to it.

Originally, my children and relatives were all in the same city, but I no longer wanted to join in the fun. Just send red envelopes to your grandchildren during the holidays. It’s better to avoid gatherings during the epidemic.

The old man then talked about another old man. She said that she is 68 years old and is afraid that she will suddenly disappear one night, so she often organizes her things and clothes when she has nothing to do, and even wants to tear up her photos. He said that if he died, the house might be rented out soon, which felt so boring.

The old man himself said that when people get old, they should re-plan their lives. The first is to treat diseases, the second is to maintain their health, and the third is to enjoy. Some people take medicine every day and have no food to eat, but they go dancing every day, thinking that they will be healthy if they are happy! In fact, hardware cannot be relied on to indicate that it will not work.

It’s time for us to sum up life. I will be fifty-nine after the Chinese New Year. I will not be blindly optimistic like others and think I can live to be a hundred years old. I only live in the present and will be free from illness and disaster. , just be grateful, say a few words of gratitude to God every day, and then live happily in happiness. It’s time to sort out your own things. Get rid of what you can and break off what you can. Don’t add anything to your home except what you commonly use. You don’t care about the brand of clothes, shoes or bags. Just be comfortable and comfortable and what you like. Keep it up. Flowers, those who plant grass, have no distractions, and are ready to grow old and die gracefully.

Who wants to suffer from illness and disaster, and who doesn’t want to live happily in his later years, but can it be done in real life? Birth, aging, illness and death are the natural laws of life and are the same for everyone. It depends on your destiny.

Although you are still in good health at the moment, things may happen unexpectedly, and people may have misfortunes or misfortunes. It is better to explain the "future affairs" to your children as early as possible to avoid causing trouble to your children. The will has been written and the property inventory has been clearly drawn out. As for clothes that are still useful, try not to add new ones. Once you have clearly explained what to eat, drink and play, you will be at ease!

Live healthily and leave with dignity. All the spring flowers and autumn moon will turn into darkness.