He and I will get married in a month. According to custom, we are engaged. On February 5, his family will go to my house to get engaged. Then I got married.

One is carelessness before marriage, and there are sequelae! Since you were so enthusiastic about each other before, you should cherish the feelings between you. Now that you have children, it is even more important to properly handle the engagement process. You can tell him that it is also your parents' and his face to be grand, and it won't cost much. When doing it in rural areas in southern Jiangsu, the man has to wait for plates, and at most there are 16 large plates of things, such as chicken, duck, fish, pork legs and so on. It varies from place to place. Now that the man has converted it into money, there is no need to send anything. The atmosphere is still lively. Inviting relatives and friends to drink engagement wine is also the most important part. It is equivalent to Anmin's notice: "You are getting married!" . So don't complain. Communicate with him well and work together to make the engagement ceremony well.