My husband has clearly said that he doesn't love me, but I still love him and don't want to divorce her. What should I do?

My husband has clearly indicated that he doesn't love me, but I still love him and don't want to divorce her. What should I do? It means you have too many shortcomings.

Either change.

Or get out.

The choice is in your hands!

My husband doesn't love me anymore and wants to divorce me. I still love him without him. What if you don't agree? He can only sue you, and the first trial will definitely lose. After half a year, you can take it off and see if he can afford it.

My husband said he didn't love me and fell in love with someone else, but I still love him and don't want a divorce. What should I do? Two years ago, we had children, and the problem came. He still doesn't do housework and is addicted to online games. My mother was afraid that I was tired, so she took the initiative to help take care of the children, and often said that he was tired and asked him to rest more. In recent years, he has become increasingly cold to me, and going out with me is like perfunctory me. He is impatient and often doesn't take the initiative to say a word to me for a day, so I often complain to him about his indifference and he doesn't want to change. One day, he came home crying and told me that he was sorry. He didn't love me and never loved me. He fell in love with someone else and is going to divorce. I couldn't believe it then. Later, under my pleading and threats, he promised not to divorce and not to see a third party. But that was for the sake of children and family. He stressed that he didn't love me and his life could not be improved.

I asked him about his acquaintance with a third party, but I actually only met him 3-4 times (working relationship), including eating twice and going out for a ride in the afternoon. Nothing happened, but he said it was love, and he was crazy about it. Indeed, he has never done this to me. Later, I learned that the third party also had a family, but I didn't know what her family relationship was like. I changed three jobs a year. Now I live in a two-bedroom apartment with three men. None of them have husbands. She was cheerful and enthusiastic, so my wife fell into crazy love and missing. Later, they met again, and he told me because he wanted to see her.

Now, I don't know what to do He won't listen to anything I tell him. All the reasons are that he doesn't love me. He feels that he hasn't lived the life he wants these years. Now he has given up his love for children. He's in pain. He is addicted to online games every day, doesn't work hard, and his mobile phone says he loves her, but he misses her but can't see her. His heart is dying. He ignored me at home and had no patience with children. Even better than before, but he turns a blind eye and sometimes makes me angry and has a worse temper than before. In the past month, we quarreled several times, all because I wanted to improve this situation, talk to him, and finally came back and said that he didn't love me, so I always said at the end of this topic, if you can't stand it, divorce. I am in pain and don't know what to do. I've thought about a lot of things at the beginning, all because I was too strong in my life and made him oppressed. I don't feel like myself anymore. I wanted to change myself, but he didn't give me a chance. I think he's just a crush. After all, life has been very good these years, but he seems to be trapped in his own sad mood and doesn't want to come out, stubbornly thinking that he loves that person. But I asked him to find her, and he said that maybe they were not suitable, and he just wanted to live the life he wanted. I really don't know what to do with him! ! I don't know what to say when I go home now, for fear that he will bring up the divorce again, both of them are silent. Ask experts for help. What should I do?

Ps: I told this to my two good friends, and neither of them believed that he didn't love me. Four years ago, I had a child. They all saw him crying outside the operating room. He was very kind to me. But now I really can't promise. He is cold to me, even indifferent. I don't know if he has contact with a third party. I think if I want to keep my marriage, I should calm down. It's no use knowing.

(2010/9/10 21:43: 28) Wang Xiaobo replied: 525 Tips: You need to [login] or [register] [second consultation] ↑ Put away Topxx723 Q: Thank you sincerely for your reply! ! The problem now is that he doesn't talk to me at all and ignores me. Now I can only give him the cold shoulder. I'm a little afraid to talk to him! ! I still try to take care of him in my life. I can only talk to him slowly through my child and sometimes play his games with him. When I watch him play games, he can still talk to me, sometimes. Now that he is out for dinner, I don't ask who he is going with or where he is going. I tried to talk to him and let him express his thoughts and feelings, but he just didn't talk and didn't know where he was. What do you suggest I do?

(2010/9/13 22: 38: 38) Wang Xiaobo replied: 525 Prompt: You need to [log in] or [register] [consult for the third time] ↑ Put away Topxx723 Q: Thank you very much for your support. I tried to communicate with him, but he was always silent. But for the sake of children, he is still willing to maintain a complete home. It seems that the third party has stopped contacting her. He is irritable, depressed, autistic and depressed. He is not interested in doing anything, and I am not allowed to touch him. One day, I deleted the phone number of a third party from his mobile phone without authorization. I warned you not to touch my mobile phone, and I will say it once, but I won't say it twice! He knew I might watch it, but I was not as angry or angry as I expected. I don't know what he thinks. One day, I was in a hurry. He said he didn't love me when he got married and always wanted to be nice to me, but it took him a long time to find out how hard it is to be nice to someone he doesn't love. He also stressed that this will be the case in the future and he does not want to develop in a good direction. He also said that he loved a third party, even if it didn't work out. I asked him. He said that love is a feeling. I asked him if he could stand this feeling. He just said that he didn't love me anyway. Teacher, I don't know whether to insist on waiting. He made me lose hope. Now I seem to be waiting for myself to lose hope. As time goes by, I think about my children more and more carefully and get a result.

I still love him, but he doesn't love me. What shall we do? Some things are yours, but not yours. No matter how persistent you are, they are not yours!

Isn't loving someone just to make him happy?

You don't have to love someone, persistence will only hurt yourself more.

Why not try to let go!

There is nothing wrong with your persistence, but will you be happy like this? Do you have to live like this every day?

I broke up, but I still love him. He doesn't love me anymore. What should I do? That man is tough enough ~ ~ broken and clean, and he is a big shot. It is true that "men should be hard on themselves", but is it appropriate to be hard on someone who loves them deeply? It shouldn't be at all! But will you really get drunk for a man who no longer loves you, or a man who never really loved you? Brave girl ~ ~ but even if you die drunk on the side of the road, the result won't change anything. "For some reason can't continue with me! But still like me very much! " Don't you think it's more like a courtesy? The idea is not that simple ~ ~ In fact, what people want to express is probably "can't go on with me!" Just if you want to break up, will you say: although you are very good, we are not suitable. I hope to be friends after breaking up, because you are very good and like being with you ... I should say the same thing. For a person who doesn't want to look back at himself, is there a better way than forgetting? There is a saying I like very much: If you want to forget someone you love deeply, you need to spend three times as much time with her! That is to say, three months-just three months. I won't be sad about it ~ ~ I'll never be a person who doesn't love myself again, and it's not worth leaving a tear for. The only way to repay each other is to be happier than when I was with him and find a man who is better and more perfect than him and really loves himself! Sorry, I still think so ~ ~

I still love him. He doesn't love me anymore Don't be too sad. People change. People can't love only one person in this life, but you can't let ta go. You'll find better. Come on.

He said he didn't love me .. but I still love him. Then you should talk to him again. Before you talk, you should think about some problems between you! Only by finding the problem can we find a solution to the problem, so that there may be room for recovery. If you can't find the reason for breaking up, it will be very difficult!

He said he didn't want me, but I still love him. What should I do? Did you really break his heart? Since you still love him, try your best to keep him. If it's no use keeping him, then give it up. There is no point in pestering him all the time, it will only make him hate you more.

My husband doesn't seem to love me anymore. He has a new lover, but I still love him and don't want a divorce. What if you don't love him? Reluctant love is unhappy, and we can communicate.

He doesn't love me. What should I do if I still love him? When two people are together, it's not who wants to accommodate who, but two people * * * create * * together to maintain your previous feelings, rather than being able to decide unilaterally. If two people are in love, they should try to accept each other's good and bad, not how comfortable they are, then they will definitely not grow up. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 years, and now I am getting married. Isn't it the same? People envy us. In fact, to tell the truth, the other party has its own bad habits, and of course there are good aspects. Since you love someone, you should love all of her, and you can't go your own way. Although we often fight together, it doesn't hurt our self-esteem to think about our mistakes afterwards and say sorry to each other! When we quarrel, we both want to give it to each other. Hey, fighting is good. It is not a good thing for two people not to fight together, and their views on each other will get worse if they keep it in their hearts for a long time. Isn't it good for two people to maintain their feelings and work hard in one place? I suggest you talk it over. Everyone's expression is different. You should make sure whether he loves you or not. If he doesn't love you, you don't have to find yourself in pain. You don't have to have someone to love. It's certainly a good thing to be with someone you can love. If you can't be with someone you love, you can't be forced. . I believe in fate.