Is it true that the previous text message was abusive?

To tell the truth, even if I am humiliated with this man, contradictions will break out sooner or later. This man is the most unreliable. Don't be so cowardly. It seems that you can't live without him. Even if you put up with this man now, there will be conflicts when you get married in the future. If I were you, I wouldn't just dump him. The more things men can't get, the more interested they are. You're like a post-it note on him. He'll think you're worthless. I think you are shameless. Be a girl's reserve. Since he is so lukewarm, you don't need to rely on him any more. You said you cried when you were scolded. He comforts you lukewarm. That's because he is perfunctory. He just thinks he should do what he should do. He has always been a perfunctory obligation to you, so he doesn't love you. So let it go. You're not afraid to walk around and see more without a boyfriend in the future. You can always meet someone better than him and try something new. In this society, you just have to think about it, otherwise it is easy to suffer, especially girls. I suggest you let him go. You just break up with him, but he will think you are not like a post-it note, he will feel fresh, and your self-esteem will be restored. You have no self-esteem now. At least in his eyes, he thinks he is a duty to you, not love. Now he thinks you look like a post-it girl. Do you have to obey him? Is it necessary for girls to learn to stand in the clouds and look at boys? Don't be pathetic and opinionated, he will hate you even more. I think it is necessary for you to make one last attempt for yourself now, that is, ask him out and tell him to break up directly. Don't cry like that I will look down on you, so your image in his heart will be very humble. You should let him know that you are a person, not a thing. He can do whatever he wants. When you ask him out that day, you should sit opposite him beautifully: break up without feelings. I have no time to waste. That's it. I have an appointment. Goodbye. This sentence definitely impressed him. Don't feel inferior when you say this. You must look him in the eye and speak in a tone that is not weak. Your expression must be cold and expressionless. You meet and leave with a straight face. Are you absolutely right about what I said? You took back your lost dignity from him and surprised him without saying anything, so that you could proudly go out and get a new hairstyle, and then take it down and stick it in the space. When he surfs the internet, he will see your new photo, and you must change your signature. You said to get a new haircut and start a new day, let bygones be bygones. Goodbye! Maybe he will look for you again, or maybe he is uncomfortable without looking for you. Please, listen to me. this is true