What to do if a person doesn’t reply to your messages

If you send a message to a person and he doesn't reply to you or pays attention to your various pleas, you should stop begging and don't stay frozen in the deadlock.

Not replying to messages means that he is unwilling to reply, and it means that there is something wrong with the way you communicate with him. As long as the other party still has some affection for you, he will reply to your messages, even if it is just to be polite and disrespectful. Even if you mean well, he will reply. If you don't reply, it means that he hates communicating with you now. If he continues on this path, he will be blocked.

Many friends who have recovered have encountered the situation where the other party does not reply to messages. So what should you do when encountering this situation? I will teach you 5 tricks to make the other party change his mind.

You need to know that the other party just doesn’t want to contact you anymore and has not blocked you. This can explain at least two problems.

1. None of the messages you sent before have reached him.

2. He can still see the messages you sent

a. From the first point of view, your previous redeeming behavior is useless and boring to him. , worthless, meaningless. Then I understand that replying to your message is a waste of time. I can't get either emotional value or other substantive value from you. If I keep you after breaking up, it's all about my affection for you.

You need to pay attention to each other's value needs. If you are severely rejected by the other person, don't kneel down and lick it. Think calmly about what the other person needs now and what you can bring out to make him look at you again.

If you say you love him and want to save him, can you create any value for him? Can it make him happier? Neither can, so it's useless to do this. So what is useful? Make him happy, make him feel valued, make him dignified, even make him rich and have personal improvement... There are many useful things, and there is always one thing he needs in particular. If you can provide him with what he wants, There was no reason for him to turn a blind eye.

Many of the examples I have come across before were of boys helping girls write essays, or introducing clients or jobs, and one of them got the other party a very rare ticket to an idol meet-and-greet, and then the two of them The personal exchanges gradually increased. Therefore, creating value for the other party is a stepping stone to recovery. It can make the other person feel a certain degree of dependence on you.

b. The second thing to pay attention to is the second point. Don’t think that the other party doesn’t want to contact you. That’s too bad. There is no way you can do it. In fact, he will still read all the messages you send, so you As for the emotional value and practical value that can be provided to him, he still needs to continue to send messages to convey it.

Try to use the identity and mentality of a friend to face your ex's hot and cold feelings towards you. Don't worry, he will produce any psychological changes that should occur after seeing what you say and send. You only need to keep watering and fertilizing now, and then wait for the value you create to reap the rewards.