My wife and I have been married for ten years and have children. The first boyfriend who broke up with her 12 sent her a message asking how she was doing. My wife answered him and said ...

In fact, everyone wants to cheat, but everyone wants to have their own private space.

Therefore, even if the lady is not here, you should not look at her privacy intentionally or unintentionally.

Besides, is the first boyfriend asking too much after ten years? It's not about sending a few text messages.

Now you have a problem: you don't trust her.