Will girls continue to be cold to you?

Will girls continue to be cold to you?

Girls are indifferent to you. Will you continue? Whether a girl likes you or not needs to get along with you for a long time, and then observe her detailed actions towards you. But will girls continue when they are indifferent to themselves? I'll see with you if girls will continue when they are indifferent to you.

Will girls continue to be cold to you? 1 Every time I chat with a girl I like, when the other person doesn't reply, many friends around me will use the classic old saying that everyone can recite it backwards: if the relationship is long-lasting, it will be sooner or later.

Well, yes, chasing girls can't be anxious, and you can't stick to others every day. But when you talk to her, she often doesn't return messages. This is not a matter of urgency, but a question of liking you or not, a question of having a good impression on you, and even a question of whether you should stick to it.

It's just that girls don't return messages in many ways, sometimes they are really busy, and sometimes they really don't want to talk to you, so whether to insist on chatting with girls and not returning messages, I'll summarize three points for you here. If they meet, ironman can give up directly.

Never reply to messages.

The initiation of love requires long-term close communication between the two sides, so when you want to talk to a girl and she doesn't reply, you can just give up, because she doesn't even want to give you the most basic chance to get to know you, which means that she didn't feel anything about you at first.

There is a saying that you can never wake a person who pretends to sleep.

Just like in love, you can never touch someone who doesn't like you.

No matter how many times and how long you talk to her, you really don't have to insist from the moment she doesn't want to reply to your message.

Therefore, brothers at this stage should be smart people.

Responding to messages is perfunctory.

Perfuncture is the beginning of refusing to get to know you better, so when you chat, she will reply to your message occasionally and will not reply occasionally. To reply to your words completely by mood shows that your position in her heart is really not generally low, or even dispensable.

To put it more bluntly, when she replies to you, she may have something to ask you for help, but when she doesn't reply to you, she really thinks you are annoying.

In this case, nine times out of ten, you are a fish in the girl's pond. If you are not lonely and empty, or need help, she won't remember who you are at all, and she won't take the initiative to reply to your message.

Therefore, at this stage, brothers, don't go looking for abuse easily, give up early.

Chatting always belittles you

Try to think, under what kind of relationship will two people belittle each other?

Many brothers may think: when the relationship is good, because only the better the relationship, will they not get angry easily when they step on each other.

But what I want to say is that the better the relationship, the less you will belittle each other. What I usually see is just ridicule, a little joke that both sides can accept. Only when you hate someone, you will not care about the feelings of the other person, and then you will blatantly belittle the other person or poke the other person's pain. For this, brothers should polish their eyes and distinguish clearly.

So when you chat with a girl you like, although she didn't reply to your message, most of the content of the chat is demeaning you, or you often make fun of your shortcomings. I advise you not to pursue it again.

How can a person who doesn't even have the consciousness of loving you and cherishing you touch her and make her fall in love with you?

Do you want to continue when girls are cold to you? 2 1. They often ignore you all day.

When many boys meet girls who don't reply, it's easy to find various reasons to comfort themselves:

"Is she too busy to reply to me?"

"Did she lose her mobile phone?"

"Is she with other boys?"

But the truth is often simple and cruel-you are unimportant to him, dispensable, and may even find you annoying.

2. You always start or end the topic.

Although boys should take the initiative, they should not take the initiative every time.

If a girl really likes you, she will definitely take the initiative to chat with you, at least occasionally.

Similarly, boys don't have to play the role of ending the topic all the time. Put down the phone if you don't want to chat.

3. When chatting, girls seldom offer topics on their own initiative.

The most frequently asked question in the emotional questionnaire is: "Why do you feel it is difficult to chat with girls?"

If you look at the chat records, you will find that it is the boys who keep providing topics, while the girls' replies are very dry.

The essence of chatting is a process in which two people depend on each other and exchange information. Talking to only one person and refueling is like walking with only your left foot-there is no way to walk well.

I only call you when I need your help.

Recently, it has been found that the word "tool man" appears more and more in Weibo, Post Bar and Zhihu.

Countless people have learned through communication that it is not just themselves who have acted as "tool people" in gender relations:

The girl's computer is broken to help repair it;

Help girls review before the final exam;

Come and get your luggage when you move ...

But often girls don't choose partners in these tools, just as labor-even for free.

5. I rarely hide in front of you.

If a girl will talk about her bad shortcomings or experiences in front of you, she probably doesn't regard you as a potential partner.

If she is really attracted to you, the other person will tend to be reserved, at least not outspoken.

If she often talks about her shortcomings, or other boys she likes, it means that she is suggesting that you give up early.

6. I often tell you that I am busy when I invite you.

In fact, many times girls are not busy at all. They spend a considerable amount of time blowing air conditioners, eating snacks and watching flat-screen TV in bed.

She said she was just looking for an excuse to refuse your invitation-and it was a perfunctory excuse.

Either verbally agree to your invitation, and the result is delayed again and again; Or, after about six months, I finally agreed to stand you up ten minutes before the date.

No-interest signal in dating:

1, body language is very alert

Language can be disguised, but unconscious actions are difficult to disguise.

If the woman doesn't dislike you, her overall movements in dating will be more soothing and natural, and girls are even willing to approach you on their own initiative;

On the other hand, if a girl is not interested in you, her body will tend to be conservative and shy and will not be close to you.

2. Don't pay attention to you when dating

Even when talking about clients or friends and relatives at work, it is very impolite to keep looking at the screen of the mobile phone, let alone dating potential contacts.

Therefore, it is really hard for some male compatriots to see each other looking for a topic when they are playing with their heads down. At this time, the correct way to deal with it is to let the other person realize that you are unhappy.

Of course, sometimes girls still have a crush on you, but there may be some things that need to be handled on the mobile phone. At this time, it is good to be generous and understand a little;

If the dating process is long, you need to set aside private time to deal with mobile phone information alone.

3. I don't pay much attention to my image when I meet you.

"Women are pleasing to themselves." Many girls may have to wear light makeup in order to go downstairs and buy a bottle of water.

Because they are always delicate in their bones, they will not meet the only thrill at the corner of the corridor in pajamas.

It is the creed of many girls to keep the best condition at all times.

So, if a girl doesn't dress up or dress casually when dating you, it's nine times out of ten because she doesn't pay much attention to you.

These are the most common signals that girls are not interested in you in chatting and dating.

It is not enough to recognize these signals. We should also learn how to deal with them properly when facing these signals.

Generally speaking, when chatting and dating, the other person is very cold to you for the following reasons:

First, personal attraction is insufficient.

At this time, the best way is to learn how to show your value reasonably. Generally, we achieve this goal by chatting and demonstrating.

Many boys have their own value, but they can't show it or the display means are too low, which will give girls a bad impression.

In addition, if the value difference is too far, then the first thing to consider is how to improve yourself.

Second, the experience segments are too far away from each other.

We often meet such boys in our life, and their careers are not bad, but their emotional experience is almost zero.

It is difficult for such a boy to associate with a girl whose value is much lower than his own, let alone a girl whose value is similar to his own.

Therefore, this part of the boys should start from Du Yuesheng, accumulate experience and avoid crossing the line.

Third, personal value is much higher than the opposite.

Many people may wonder: "Why is high value wrong?"

Put yourself in others' shoes. If you are an ordinary girl, a rich man from Gao Shuai will suddenly tease you at this time, and your first reaction will be that this is not normal, and the other person may be up to no good.

Therefore, in the face of girls whose value is not as good as their own, they need to show their availability appropriately and not be condescending.

Fourth, the other person already has someone he likes.

People's attention and time are limited.

If a girl puts most of her energy into others, it will be difficult for them to notice you in a short time.

The principle at this time is not to let the relationship cool down too much, to maintain the relationship of good friends, to find opportunities in life and wait for the right time.

Fifth, time suddenly caused the other party to be in a bad mood recently.

Instructor Deyu talked to a girl before. At first, she was in a good mood, but one day the girl suddenly stopped talking to me.

It took a long time to learn from her friend that the girl's parents were getting divorced during that time, so the girl was naturally not in the mood to chat with others.

Many times, the relationship between men and women is only a small part of life, and many unexpected accidents will affect this relationship.

Therefore, when we are in contact with girls, we should try our best to go deep into each other's circles, so that we can know some special situations in time and have greater control over their relationship.

The above are the most common expressions that girls are not interested in you when chatting and dating with girls, and what should we do in the face of these expressions.

Do you want to continue when girls are cold to you? 3 girls chat coldly. Do you want to continue?

1, make a good presentation.

If you want to impress girls, just chatting is not enough. If you want to attract girls, you must study both inside and outside. Appearance is appearance. A person's appearance is a person's best business card. If you want to show your best side to girls, you should first pay attention to your appearance, be clean and tidy, and dress generously and appropriately. Pay attention to details, and don't wear clothes that are not good at quality and workmanship. Second, we must show the inner. What about the younger one? In addition to chatting, be meaningful and decorate your circle of friends. There should be more positive sunshine in the circle of friends, something that can show your taste in life and work ability, so as to attract the attention of girls.

In fact, the hardest thing to chase girls is chatting. Without chatting, I can't communicate with girls, and I can't open the emotional lock of girls. I used to be all thumbs, I couldn't chat, and I didn't know how to please girls.

2, improve their own strength

Good girls are generally liked by many people, so only when you stand out will girls notice you. Since ancient times, girls have always liked strong boys. Such boys will make girls feel a sense of "worship", and associating with powerful boys will make girls feel more secure. So if you want to win the hearts of girls, you must improve your own strength. You might as well use your spare time to learn more skills, read more books or take some classes to improve yourself, so that you can have a skill, and then let her see your efforts and changes through friends circle or chat, and see your growing strength. This will not only make girls look at you with new eyes, but also help you improve your own strength, killing two birds with one stone.

Step 3 pursue it in another way

If you have worked hard, your own conditions are OK, and you still can't get a response from the girl, then you are probably "not the person she likes". The best solution at this time is to pursue it in another way. Every girl has her own "Prince Charming" in her heart, some are gentle and affectionate, some are overbearing and hot, some are clever and lovely, and some are deep and steady. All you have to do is find out what she likes, and then change the pursuit mode. For example, if she likes tenderness, you should pay more attention to her and send her more spoony and beautiful love words. If she likes to bully people and you find that she didn't have breakfast, you can order takeout for her without saying anything. If she likes cuteness, then you can play dumb and send more cute expression packs, which will naturally impress her.