Have you ever been tempted by several reasons why people miss love?

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Ice cream beet: I didn't know love when I was a child, but I liked an idol. It took me a long time to realize that his unintentional confession was true. His mobile phone is full of my idol's music. One afternoon, when the sun shone on him through the window and he wore a baseball cap and headphones to listen to music, I realized that he was really as handsome as people said. But I don't regret it. Those beautiful things are fixed in time. I like LAY for five years, and I think I will meet someone who likes him because he likes me.

Masterpiece: Yan's Battle of Proposing Marriage/A Chinese Odyssey by Supreme Treasure.

Yan xiaolai

Joker

Case study:

This kind of situation is very common in student days. Especially for boys, it is really rare to see conscious girls like "ice cream beets".

Just like Yan, the girl who obviously has a crush on her gives her explicit hints again and again, but she can't get them. Otherwise, it's just that you have to face the pain and don't talk when you have the opportunity. Until one day, the favorite TA gave up the chasing eyes and turned away from the back, only to suddenly realize that it was too late to regret.

And we, the little orange, actually feel a bit like a sovereign treasure, always thinking that we like Bai Jingjing. As a result, I didn't know until I saw the tears Xia Zi left in my heart that "there was a sincere love before me, but I didn't cherish it."

Alas, I can only sigh that students can have snacks to eat!

2, the gap is wide, not confident enough

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Only love 1007 _ Baby Xing Xing Baby: In high school, every time I took an exam, I found that there was a boy in my class who was always in the top ten of the grade. I began to pay attention to him, and he sat in front of me obliquely. In class, he always looks at him with his eyes and finds that he smiles beautifully and is sunny. Slowly, slowly, I fell in love with him. And I didn't express it in high school for three years, and I thought about it when I graduated. But he is so excellent that I have many shortcomings. I feel that I don't deserve him, and I don't know what he thinks.

Representative: Num's little love.

Case study:

This kind of situation has the most feedback, and it is common to think about the student days. The man of the hour in school always attracts everyone's attention. There will always be one or two goddesses with good grades, high face value and key personality sunshine in the school. That will say who you like, mostly just a few candidates. Your eyes will quickly catch that person's every move. If he smiles at you, you will smile in your dreams all week, as if he were your motivation to go to school.

There are two possibilities to like this kind of person.

The first one, like the little thing of first love, tries to get close to him in order to become a better self. But in the end, when you can really get close to him, it is estimated that you have missed the opportunity to be together.

Another situation is more negative, just silently looking at him from a distance, looking up at him, and then feeling more and more inferior. This situation is doomed to miss love in the end.

However, I want to say that many times, that person may beautify that person just because we like that person, but in fact, you can look back at those old photos now. You might think that he is just an ordinary person. Think about it, maybe there are some things you will hate about him, such as smelly and not as handsome as you remember. You just think too much about him and too little about yourself. You are not as bad as you think, and he is not as good as you think. At that time, the so-called gap was insignificant when you grew up.

Therefore, in this case, Bian Xiao just wants to say never underestimate yourself!

3, objective reasons, lost to reality

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Xback- Boss Xing's little public gesture: Because the peace between the two places didn't persist, he was studying far away from me. At that time, he could only send text messages and had no time to surf the Internet. I haven't contacted for half a year, and I broke up in a rage. He came back from vacation with a girlfriend who had promised to spend the rest of his life.