My mother-in-law scolded me. What should I do?

Scold back, don't hesitate to scold back! Why did she scold you? She didn't give birth to you or raise you. You two are equal. Treat her like a strange aunt. If she scolds you, you can scold her back.

Married for one year and in love with her husband for nine years. Because I have never planned to have children, when my whole family went to my uncle's house on the third day of this year, I received a phone call from my mother-in-law, saying that I would have children, and if I couldn't, I would do a test tube. I gave my mother-in-law the report of the pre-marital physical examination, so I sounded a little too much and angry, and didn't want my relatives to find out, so I called my husband.

My husband called his mother directly and taught her a lesson. One sentence impressed me deeply. "You are a woman. Don't you know you are scolding her? " I just reacted. Oh, I'm cursing myself. Maybe I don't talk much, so I feel bullied.

But I didn't say anything. I just complained in front of my husband, and then refused to go back to my husband's house until I went to work. I went back that afternoon and left. After leaving, my mother-in-law sent me a message wishing me a safe journey, but there was no reply. Later, my husband called me and asked me if I had seen the message. I said I did, but he didn't say anything.

Until now, there has been no contact. I don't want to contact you again, at least not this year. After all, I am a person who bears grudges. Having said that, what I actually mean is. My parents have worked hard to raise me and won't let me go to other people's houses to be scolded.

As the saying goes, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in most families is not harmonious. I am also a married person. According to my idea, I think young people should live separately from old people, so there will be fewer contradictions. I usually work outside and seldom go home, so there is basically no contradiction with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law takes special care of me every time I go home. We should try our best to understand the mother-in-law who nags and scolds all day. Old people are wordy, and it is normal to talk too much. Don't argue with them.