How to gracefully refuse to urge marriage at home every day?

We can choose to do it elegantly for the elder's urging marriage. You can try a new method, which is very useful.

First, in the face of parents urging marriage, we should know how to handle things.

Parents' feelings of urging marriage should be understood by children, but it does not mean unconditional blind obedience. After all, the right to happiness depends on oneself, and parents' opinions are for reference only. When parents are in a hurry, you might as well give them a step, promise on the surface, and what to do behind them. Of course, the use of this trick is very limited and cannot be used for a long time. The key time is to really implement it, otherwise your parents will definitely doubt what you said before.

Second, in the face of parents urging marriage, we should know how to put ourselves in the other's shoes.

Some leftover men and women will lose their minds and lose their temper with their closest relatives when they are urged to get married by their parents. This is a big no-no. We are often like this, always respectful to strangers, but always cruel and indifferent to our loved ones. Because we know that no matter how much we ignore the people we love, they won't really mind. However, we must know how to put ourselves in others' shoes. In the face of parents urging marriage, the leftover men and women may wish to consider it from their parents' point of view, communicate with their parents more and tell them what they really think. If you don't want to get married for the time being, then you should also tell your parents frankly about your plans, try to gain their understanding and try to reach an understanding with your parents on the issue of marriage.

Third, in the face of parents urging marriage, we should know the proper blind date.

Many leftover men and women always have bad feelings about blind date, and think blind date is a rather shameful thing in fall in price. Subconsciously, I think only people who can't get married or marry a daughter-in-law will go on blind dates. In fact, blind date is also a way to create fate. Nowadays, many leftover men and women have narrow social circles. At this time, if parents arrange blind dates, don't blindly refuse, and you can participate in some blind dates appropriately. Blind date doesn't have to have a result, even through blind date, it's good to know more friends. Therefore, in the face of parents' urging marriage, the leftover men and women can participate in some blind dates appropriately to offset their parents' doubts and reassure their parents.

So don't take this topic too seriously. If you have a good attitude, you won't pester yourself or embarrass each other.