What should I do if others say I am incompetent?

Sometimes, if you reply directly, first, it will appear that your emotional intelligence is low, second, it will make others look down on you, and third, people who ridicule or scold you will achieve the purpose of angering you. There is a way to try. If others ridicule you, you can scold yourself all over, and it's best to belittle yourself as worthless and exaggerated, so that the person who taunts you will not be able to react at once, and he will be speechless if he wants to scold you again. In the eyes of others, you have also created an image of being good at controlling emotions, optimistic and humble, which will make those who scold you look embarrassed.

Sometimes, for various reasons, a person may be laughed at, insulted and abused by others. At this time, most people will be particularly angry, then tit for tat, and finally both lose.

However, some people may choose to treat each other coldly and bear it silently. Such people are generally highly cultivated. They don't want to care about people with low quality. They know that silence is the most powerful way to fight back. After a long time, people who ridicule, insult and insult others are bored because they can't find the target, so they naturally stop their bad behavior and their ugly faces are exposed. Those who are laughed at and insulted win without fighting.

This is not Q's spiritual victory method, but the embodiment of high emotional intelligence. Imagine if the dog bites, would you bite it again? Dogs are not sensible, and people can't be unreasonable like animals. If they can stand it, they will. As the saying goes, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon."

Please remember this passage: dogs can't be too full and people can't be too good; Endure a moment to push your luck, take a step back and intensify; Don't make too many jokes, or it will be a disaster; Love is not enough, money comes together; There are a group of dogs behind the rich, and it is difficult to move without money; See clearly what is good for you and remember who bit you; Eat and drink, don't take things to heart; Mortals only speak three points, leaving seven points to conquer the world.