I have been in love for a long time, and suddenly I found out that my girlfriend was having an affair with someone else. What should I do?

The word ambiguity is really hard to say, because it is too ambiguous, because ambiguity can neither represent betrayal nor peace. You still have to grasp the specific degree. Rainie Yang told us a long time ago that ambiguity makes people feel wronged and can't find evidence of love. We don't know whether to cry or not. I think too much or you think too much.

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In the past, if such a thing happened, I would definitely tell you that such a woman could not have it. When she was in love with you, she hooked up with someone else. She was a fox. She leads a disorderly life and sweeps the door before it's too late. But now I can only tell you with a smile, man, it's up to you. It's not that I'm getting worse, but that society is developing too fast, technology is constantly innovating, people are getting closer and closer, and people's pursuit is getting higher and higher. More people choose to disagree, and more people choose not to compromise. The divorce rate is so high, even those who have vowed to grow old with you in a solemn ceremony are likely to look at you helplessly in a few years and say, I'm sorry, we really don't fit in, so let's go our separate ways. It's not that anyone deceives anyone, but that love is true love, and that no love is true love.

There are still many possibilities for your girlfriend to have an affair with others by prying. I hope you still don't make a move. You have to ask yourself what you want first. Do you love your girlfriend? Is there something wrong with your relationship because it takes two to make it work? If your relationship is really stiff now, you don't like each other so much, and you can't tolerate her, then break up early. You found out she was having an affair with someone else anyway. Although this article can't explain the big problem, it is enough as a reason to break up. If you still love her and want to be with her, the next thing you need to judge is whether she deserves to be with her, depending on whether she really has an ulterior motive or just curious and just having fun. After all, many people just want to play social software such as exploration, and they don't really betray you. Since you have been in love for a long time, your girlfriend hasn't broken up with you, which means that she doesn't want to affect your relationship by asking for ambiguity. You are responsible for your sudden discovery. Can you be sure that she is really having an affair with someone else, or are you just guessing?

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Although it is wrong to be ambiguous with others on social software, it is not completely incomprehensible in today's society. Now that you have found out and are very concerned about it, it is necessary for you to have a frank talk with your girlfriend and ask her what she really thinks. Then you can decide whether to give her another chance or forgive her according to her performance and your attachment to her. This kind of thing is an outsider, and anything involving feelings will always be cut off.