Which is less harmful to the opponent, direct dealing or euphemistic refusal?

In fact, I think sending a good person card directly is almost the same as euphemistic refusal, both of which are euphemistic expressions of refusal. But euphemistic refusal is more direct than sending a good friend card directly, which will let the other party know that they actually don't accept it. Our attitude has been made clear. We will give each other a reason to politely refuse each other, which will make them more acceptable. However, it seems that we are too tactful to send a good card directly. At this time, they may not understand what we mean or even misunderstand us.

Sending a good friend card directly will have a certain effect at first and will not make the other party too sad. Even two people can become good friends and become good friends. But slowly, the influence becomes greater, because the influence of sending good friend cards directly is continuous, and it will always affect each other in life. When the other party finally understands our thoughts, it will actually hurt them more. I think it's better to have long-term pain than short-term pain, and it's better to refuse directly.

By euphemistic refusal, this way is more direct and can make the other party directly understand that our attitude is unacceptable. Although they will feel very sad at this time, they will adjust their mentality, adjust their state in a short time and accept our attitude. So as to meet a better life in the future in a better state, but if you just blindly issue good cards, it will even bring them more serious harm. This method is not advisable.

If we have to compare the two methods, which one is less harmful to the other party, I think it is better to politely refuse. Although we rejected each other, we gave some reasons, even if it was hard to accept, we would eventually enlighten ourselves. However, they won't understand the reason why we blindly issue good cards and finally reject them, so they will only fall into a deeper misunderstanding.