My brother-in-law borrowed my car to take a friend for a ride, but without my permission, how can I express my opinion?

My wife and I were introduced by colleagues. Because we are old and our families are anxious to get married, we only got married after two months. My wife and I are both ordinary working-class people, with a monthly salary of several thousand yuan, but fortunately, the conditions at home are not bad. Both parents have retirement wages, and I am an only child. My parents are very kind to me, so I am under great pressure.

But my wife's family conditions are a little worse than mine. She was originally from the countryside and had a younger brother at home. Since childhood, my wife's parents are more concerned about my brother-in-law. As long as it is a good thing at home, it will be given to her brother-in-law first. Although her wife is treated unfairly at home, she also loves her brother-in-law, and almost everyone in the family revolves around her brother-in-law, so that her brother-in-law has a particularly bad temper, and

After my wife and I got married, life was still good. My wife cares about me on weekdays. Every time I come home late after working overtime, my wife will stay at home and wait for me to sleep, and she will always cook me a lot of delicious food. Every time I am taken care of by my wife, I feel very warm, so I am also very good to my wife. Even if I am busy at work, I will go home to accompany her and take time to go shopping with her. My wife's stomach is disappointing, too. We both are.

After the wife got pregnant, her mother-in-law was also very excited. She will come to see her every few days. At first, I thought her mother-in-law was just taking care of her, but later I learned that her wife had been giving money to the family behind her back. When I learned about it, I was really sad, but I saw that her wife was subsidized by her own salary, and I couldn't say anything. Occasionally, I buy something for her family.

But one day, my wife suddenly told me that her brother was going to buy a car, but the family didn't have that much money and wanted to give her the car my mother gave her. When I heard my wife say this, I flatly refused. The car is not a cheap thing, how can you give it if you say so? In addition, my wife belongs to my family, and I usually subsidize her family. Now I have to give my brother-in-law a car. I definitely won't agree.

My wife quarreled with me when she saw that I didn't agree. She was angry with me for a few days. She always said that it was her brother, and helping her brother meant helping her. I saw that she was pregnant and didn't dare to answer her mouth. I also bought her a lot of things she likes to eat to make her happy, but my wife seems ungrateful and insists that I promise her to give her car to her brother-in-law.

I was at work that day. Suddenly, my mobile phone screen lit up. I opened it. That's a short message from my wife. She said that my brother-in-law took the car out for a ride with his friends, and there was a collision on the way back. She said she wanted me to help. Seeing the text message sent by my wife, I was completely ill. I immediately made a phone call and scolded my wife for lending her car to my brother-in-law. Unexpectedly, my wife said that I was really angry when I heard her say this. I really didn't expect my wife to say such a thing. I simply said in a rage, "Just give your brother the car. I don't want it, and I won't go and deal with it. Anyway, you don't think I am your husband! " Then I hung up.