After her boyfriend invited her to dinner four times, she said that she would pay off after several more invitations. What do you mean?

? First of all, as a girlfriend, you should realize that a man will not always pay for you unconditionally, and he has no reason to pay for you all the time. He is willing to pay for you, spend money for you and invite you to dinner because he loves you, not because it is natural for men to spend money for women.

If you always make him pay unilaterally and you don't give him anything in return, then he will give up on you sooner or later. I think what he means by this sentence is that he is tired of you. I'll treat you to dinner several times. It is estimated that your love has exhausted him to the point where the lamp is dry.

Neither a girlfriend nor a wife should spend half the money unconditionally. If you don't give the other half any response and return, then you are consuming his love. Imagine a person who loves you, eats and drinks your food every day, and asks you to spend money on something for him, but never gives you anything in return. What would you think?

What he paid may be to tell you that if I invite you to dinner a few more times, he will never owe you again, and he can return all the benefits you gave him, which means that your love is over.

If you want to keep him, you must explain clearly and show weakness. Show that you love him by various actions, such as giving gifts, inviting him to a movie and inviting him to dinner.

It is unnatural for men to spend money on women. He also wants you to love him. Whether as a girlfriend or a wife, both men and women should be equal, so that love and marriage will last under equal conditions.

If you always think that men should pay for food and shopping, you are wrong. No one will raise a freeloader. Only when women are independent and self-respecting can they win men's love, instead of simply attracting others by their appearance and making them spend money for you.