Why are some people unable to read back information or unwilling to delete it?

The mentality of people who can't read it back is that people who refuse your good feelings and give you dignity and inferiority are too rational about emotions.

1. Refuse your favor and keep your dignity.

Generally speaking, "unable to read back" is the attitude of girls towards boys in intimate relationships. Boys pursue girls they like and take the initiative to chat with girls every day. He is very enthusiastic and active, always looking for various reasons and topics to chat with girls. But girls just don't like him. There is nothing they can do. Even if a boy doesn't like him at first sight, no matter how hard he works and how good his personality is, girls are unwilling to spend too much time on him.

At this time, girls don't want to reject boys directly because they are worried that it will hurt boys' self-esteem; She doesn't want to accept the effort and initiative of boys, because she doesn't want to owe anyone. Therefore, she can only let the boys "voluntarily give up" through "cold treatment".

2. People with low self-esteem are overly rational about emotions.

It is not terrible for a person to feel inferior, because as long as he loves enough, he is willing to summon up courage for love. What I am afraid of is a person's inferiority and reason. His inferiority complex is mainly "internal", constantly suggesting to himself: "No one will love me, and he doesn't really love me when he approaches me, but wants something." His reasons are external: constantly comparing, screening and weighing advantages and disadvantages.

He will measure the "feasibility and cost" of being together with each other, and if it is lower than his imagined state, he will give up. If two people match high enough, he will respond to you.