What does it mean that my ex-husband sent me an eight-word message?

I watched a video the other day, saying that a woman had been waiting for her husband for 18 years.

18 years ago, my husband said that he wanted to go out for fun because of business failure, and it was nothing.

When they left, they had a son, 4 years old.

There were often letters in the first few years, because the telephone was not convenient at that time.

So we can only write to each other.

1999 Her husband wrote her the last letter, and I never contacted her again.

/kloc-during 0/8 years, there was no interest dispute, just helping to take care of my husband's parents at home.

While working to earn money to support themselves and their families, while raising children.

Now the child 18 years old.

2、

According to her, at first, her husband was very kind to her.

When she first went out for a few years, she also went to Xinjiang, where her husband worked.

After she went, she washed her hair and clothes.

But in my opinion, things are not really good for her.

Because her husband owed money and rent to his friends at that time.

And she went with the money, helped her husband pay back his friend's money and helped him pay the rent for several months.

So personally, I think this kind of goodness is not true.

Later, when she came back from Xinjiang, she had less and less contact.

It can be seen that in her husband's letter, he always said that he was sorry for her and her children.

But then he disappeared.

/kloc-During 0/8 years, she took care of her parents and raised her children to go to school.

Honestly, it's not easy for a woman.

3、

She is not a highly educated person, nor is she a rich kid.

Only by farming and doing odd jobs, what is a paste bag in Hebei?

She said that she never took off her clothes when she slept, just for convenience, and she continued to work when she woke up.

Seeing his mother, my son worked hard and finally gave up his studies.

Today 18, she wants to know the result. She wants to know that she has been waiting for her husband on 18.

Whether you are alive or not.

4、

Because 18! So I found the "Wait for Me" program group to help find my husband's whereabouts.

Finally, the volunteer found her husband in Urumqi, Xinjiang, but unfortunately.

Her husband only wrote her a letter with only a few words and asked volunteers to bring it to her.

When Ni Pingnian read it to everyone, everyone shed tears.

It only says, Zhao Heru, don't wait for me.

What a pity marriage this is.

Only in the play, I stayed in the cold kiln for 18 years.

In real life, she really did it.

It's really ungrateful to face such a man.

18 years! What does it mean for women?

I have devoted my whole life to youth, although I have a son.

But this life is almost the same,

She probably didn't expect her husband to fail her like this.

This is really ...

After a storm comes a calm, the vegetation in my hometown is deep.

I heard that you are always alone.

How many people are immersed in such a romantic song in real life.

5、

In the end, it's just her own. She wants to spend her youth waiting for this, but she has no regrets. At least one child has grown up.

Her husband and family also recognize her, but this man probably can't go back to the past.

People really change with time.

Especially in today's society, if a person is not determined enough, it is easy to change.

6、

Finally, to sum up, actually this man! Love yourself, love your face and love your future.

Love everything about yourself. Of course, if you like, you can call him selfish.

But for this woman, to be honest, she should love herself because her husband doesn't understand her at all.

So love yourself! Everyone should learn to love themselves.