There are relatives at home, how to chat?

When you have relatives at home, you should chat with them, and remember the principle of reciprocity: determine the main chat object according to seniority, gender and age. The main chat attendants should be equal to their relatives in qualifications, gender and age.

For example, if this relative is your uncle, then your father will take the initiative to chat with this relative and be the main chat waiter.

If the relative is your menstruation or menstruation, then your mother should take the initiative to chat with her relatives and be the main chat partner.

If your relatives are your cousins and you are male, then you should take the initiative to chat with your relatives and be the main chat waiter.

If your relatives are your cousins and you are a woman, then you should take the initiative to chat with your relatives and be the main chat waiter.

If you are not the main chat waiter, you can say hello when you meet for the first time, say hello and have a simple chat. You can do your own thing. When we eat together, or watch TV together in our spare time, we just need to greet each other's families and get to know everyone's recent situation.

If you are the main chat waiter, how should you find a chat topic?

1. Talk about the recent situation: If you haven't contacted your relatives for a while, the first thing to talk about is "the recent situation". Ask each other what they are doing these days. How's it going? Then introduce what you are doing and how you are doing.

2. Greeting family: Greeting relatives' families, the health status of the elderly in the other family, and the work and study situation of the other children.

When talking about the above two topics, you can properly evaluate and praise the other person or his family, so that the other person will be very happy. You can also recall the past events related to each other appropriately, which can enhance feelings and bring the relationship closer.

3. According to each other's understanding, talk about things they are familiar with, things they care about and things they are interested in.

4. You can find a topic from the other person: find a topic from the other person's skin color, physical condition and dress.

5. You can talk about your or your partner's plans, plans, wishes and expectations for the future.

6. You can talk about recent news hot events, entertainment gossip, etc.

7. You can chat.

8. If you really can't find a topic, watch TV together and talk about the characters and plots on TV.

9. Introduce new topics from the topics we talked about before.

Friends who can chat can lead to many topics from the first two topics. Friends who have poor eloquence and can't chat should practice the "keyword" chat method, study more and think more about how to find topics when chatting with different objects on different occasions. How to answer the phone? How to change the subject? Talk more and practice more at ordinary times, and then summarize and analyze more. People with good eloquence are not born, they are all trained in countless small talk.