The male ticket returned to his hometown during the National Day holiday, and he hasn't contacted me for four days. Can ordinary people do this? Is it normal? For men, women can

As for whether or not to go home with him, it is not easy for others to judge. First of all, you should make sure that your relationship is on and off. Although you have been together for five years, and you are sure that he is your future husband, I take the liberty to ask here: has he never been to your house once in all these years? If he really cares about you and likes you, I think he should also pay attention to your family. Although love is free and marriage is free now, which parents don't think about their children, but always want their children to get ahead. Don't you think? ! Personal opinion: take a serious look at your relationship with him, and don't be blinded by ordinary and superficial things. After all, the happiness of life is your own.