How can I become a truly mature woman?

1, frivolous behavior

When you meet a social gathering with a handsome guy present, you are the first among the ladies to exchange business cards to show your infinite charm. However, you may not care about your swaying waist when you walk, and your voice is too sweet when you speak. You are jealous that your female colleagues will spread this matter to the leaders of the company in the form of gossip, which will lead to a rapid decline in your reliability index.

You already know why you stand out from the crowd After all, Cinderella is ignored. Keeping your head up and tracking is conducive to enhancing your self-confidence. However, it is best to leave things like navel-revealing clothes to my cousin, and it is best to add a waistcoat when going out. Mature women are natural and graceful at least in appearance. By the way, don't forward the text messages sent by your sisters to the opposite sex. These words may not apply to everyone. Remember, the deep charm comes from your temperament from the inside out, not a temporary talent show.

2. Love vanity

You're not 20 years old, so what's the ostentation and extravagance for your birthday? If you don't have a boyfriend to send flowers, don't secretly call the flower shop to ask for flowers to be sent to the company, and ask more than three female colleagues to be present. As a couple living a family life, there is no need to demand a male partner with high standards on Valentine's Day.

The latest mobile phone is not specially designed for you. It's more than enough to show off. You don't need some functions, especially those that look thin but expensive. You just have to look at them through the window. After all, his money is used to support his family. It is understandable that women like glamorous appearance, but those actresses who endorse high-end makeup brands use free gifts, and even make money after using them. You're not on the same starting line as them. So, don't force yourself, do everything according to your ability, and buy things more realistically, which will make you more feminine at home. Otherwise, in men's minds, you will never be a woman who takes care of her husband and children, which is one of the reasons why you can't get married.

3. Impulse consumption

I believe that when you pass the window full of beautiful clothes, you will subconsciously touch the bank card. If you feel like an angel flying in your heart every time you consume, you'd better think that "impulse is the devil" before you consume.

Did you buy that pair of sunglasses, throw them in the drawer and never pay attention to them again? Imported dolls in the new boutique on the street are ridiculously expensive. You can buy it for ten yuan in Yiwu. Did you buy it on a whim and never open the box again? That's right, like all women's hobbies in the world, you are obsessed with spending money on things you don't need at all When you have it, you will feel the happiness of a materialist. As for terms such as practicality, use value and cost performance, you seldom care.

If you are only responsible for a little impulsive consumption and a little impulsive consumption, it is no wonder that in the eyes of others, you will always be a little girl who loves to spend money indiscriminately!

4. Love fantasy

You are the kind of person who keeps saying that you are single and have no lover, but you never lack love around you. When you are depressed, you will also look for a fast-food love in the vast internet or dim bars. When you were a girl, you were a perfectionist. You were like a fairy. You must find a prince, not necessarily an Arab, but at least an Afghan. Gao Daquan insists on the image standard of the hero in the upcoming love story. Later, you met a man, A, B, C and D, who were not satisfied with each other, so you began to feel that you lived far away and loved somewhere else. Later, you met a person ABCD through a friend's introduction. You think that you have read countless people and are mature enough, so you sincerely feel that you have "seen through that man" and "nothing good".

In fact, you have no idea that you are a romantic visionary. Everyone can understand your love dreams when you were young and ignorant, but you still refuse to live a down-to-earth life after being honed in reality for so long. On the one hand, you have been dating, but you still refuse to pay attention. On the other hand, you are eager for something extremely romantic to happen to you. You live with such an emotional attitude. Obviously, you have gained nothing except getting more and more mature.

5. lose your temper.

Someone's reaction is always half a beat slow, but you are just the opposite. You are the explosive type. Because your boyfriend thinks too highly of your dress, you will immediately throw off his arm in the street and let him desperately find a hole in the ground in front of everyone. On your mood chart, it turns sunny to cloudy, with short gusts and sometimes showers.

If an occasional small temper can add a little to your cuteness, then please believe that few men will stand your habitual outburst. There are at least ten reasons why you don't lose your temper: hurting your liver and stomach, shortening your life, affecting your work, reducing your affinity, losing your femininity and damaging your image. ...

Life is full of joys and sorrows. It is normal to lose your temper, but it is obviously immature.

6. Excessive relaxation

Tell me about your occupation. Do you often lose your job? Often want to open a day? Three days of fishing and two days of drying nets? In business, I often give up everything, regardless of priorities? If you want to know whether your career has a future, whether you can be a leader or only a leader's wife, you don't really need to test how much talent you have. Just check whether your handbag is full of clutter or organized, or reflect on whether your blog is full of daydreams and freehand poems or an organized work plan.

A person who has a plan, can carry out the plan, has an effect and obvious effect will be welcomed by any boss. If the situation is the opposite, then don't use the excuse that "the plan is not as fast as the change". You change fast enough because you don't have any plans at all. If it weren't for gender stability, you wouldn't even be a heroine.

7. narrow-minded

The new female colleague is more popular with the leaders than you, younger and more beautiful than you, and dressed more fashionable than you, which really makes you feel very unhappy! The trivial things between colleagues and the speaker's unintentional teasing back and forth will immediately cause you inexplicable jealousy. You started to act, although there was no absolute malice, but you couldn't help speaking ill of her behind her back, laughing at her embarrassment and satirizing her dress. ...

Women are really jealous animals. In some ways, she lacks an open mind and often tends to go to extremes. However, you should know that mature people understand tolerance and seek common ground while reserving differences. Think about your boyfriend's tolerance and understanding of you over the years! If you are as broad-minded as he is, the atmosphere in your office will certainly be much more harmonious and the popularity will be better.

8, wayward yourself

You learned to yell for ice cream and new clothes without teaching at an early age. It's still the same when you grow up. If your boyfriend doesn't go shopping with you on weekends, you don't care whether he works overtime or has business entertainment. In a word: make trouble! Dare to go against this girl's wishes? Dare to disobey this young lady's orders? Dare not listen to your aunt? ..... Well, you'd better stop.

An arrogant, unreasonable and self-righteous woman, a woman who does not put herself in others' shoes, or even an overbearing and extremely self-centered woman, can't be a lovely woman in everyone's mind. It doesn't matter if you lose your temper or lose your temper. Just stop it in time. Men are tired of women who are too headstrong and don't think of each other under any circumstances. The meaning of maturity includes knowing how to respect others, knowing how to respect others and knowing how to be grateful.

9. Old and ignorant

There are many women like you, who are old and dangerous. Their hobbies are still shopping, they don't know how to socialize, and they don't even care about career development.

People who have no sense of urgency muddle along, and when they encounter the twists and turns of life, the blows they encounter are often devastating. Ignorance is helplessness, sadness and pity. If it is understandable that a girl of 15 or 16 is young and ignorant, then it is your fault if you are twice as old as a teenage girl and as naive as a decade ago, and your emotional intelligence has not improved significantly.

Not that you know a lot of celebrity gossip, a lot of life, a lot of TV series, a lot of computers, a lot of jokes, an expert in business negotiation ... but you also have different levels of knowledge and cultivation, which depends on your accumulated experience in dealing with people and your own requirements and expectations.

If you have only a few years' attendance record compared with young people, you will lose your due position as an elder sooner or later.

10, hopeless

As an adult woman, you not only can't remember some rules of the game in office politics and emotional communication, but also violate them many times. You often reveal your true thoughts in front of competing colleagues, thinking that if you put your cards on the table, others will tell you the truth, but this is definitely a very dangerous thing. Emotionally, you have no long memory. Your ex-boyfriend, the ungrateful man who left you and never looked back, came to see you on a rainy day for the n th time, but you always forgot that he would break up with you after dawn, and his heart softened again at the n+ 1.

It is said that making mistakes is unforgivable and repeating the same mistakes is unforgivable. Never forget the past, the teacher of the future can only make continuous progress by summing up the crux of the problem and correcting those mistakes.