How to treat the behavior of chatting and returning messages in seconds?

I am such a secondary person, I don't like to keep others waiting, I don't like to make people who care think more and give strangers a kind of respect. This is the meaning of "second return" to me.

Some people always have some small habits. It was expressly agreed that they would arrive at 8: 00 and 7:45. In a word, they won't keep others waiting. On the contrary, they like to wait for others. I like someone rushing over and holding your hand to tell you about the "wonders" she met on the road. She respects my hobby of waiting for her, and I won't mention how early I waited for you in this cold winter or hot sun.

I don't like the "fault" of keeping others waiting. The most important thing is to focus on "returning messages in seconds". Because of living habits, mobile phones are silent all the year round. If you can get through to my phone, it will tell you that I am playing with my mobile phone, and I am walking on the road at other times, with only missed calls around me. However, as long as I am online, I always reply to the news every second. No matter what I'm doing, I may take off my clothes and take a shower, but I'm sorry to have kept you waiting when I saw the message you sent, so I'm shaking again.

Some people don't understand it either. Seconds Back is particularly unpretentious, which shows that you want to please others. This may also be true:

I care about you, so I carefully read all the messages you sent and replied carefully.

I care about you, so no matter how late it is, as long as my network is not disconnected, our news will not be disconnected.

I care about you, even if I have nothing to say, I will send an expression after your reply.

"Seconds back" is not only a way of caring, but also a way of not wanting TA to think too much. There are always people with sensitive minds who pay great attention to other people's replies, especially when talking about some sensitive topics. TA may keep an eye on the screen from the moment the message is sent. I'm afraid of such people. They feel insecure. All I can do is try to appease them with "seconds".

Of course, besides caring, there is also a feeling. I'm not particularly familiar with it, but occasionally there may be a connection. Then it is a basic courtesy for a "familiar stranger" to reply to his message as soon as possible, because you are not close friends and there won't be many topics to share. Since it's just a few words between us, why not let it end as soon as possible?

No matter what others think, this is what "second back" means to me. PS:？ If one day you can't find me, please don't worry. I will not deliberately not, nor pretend to be reserved. I fell asleep as soon as I turned off the traffic!