What behaviors of boys make girls feel childish?

In today's life, girls usually have the upper hand in thinking, while boys can't understand girls' thoughts well most of the time. This has created a great contradiction, which will make girls feel that boys are immature and unable to communicate with their own ideas, so they often choose to break up. So that girls think that boys' behavior makes girls feel naive, which reflects several aspects:

One: I like to get my girlfriend's attention by being ambiguous with the opposite sex.

If the first one mentioned above can be attributed to personality defects, then the second one is personality problems. However, in life, there are not a few such boys.

Many people in love like to show their charm through Hua Hudie to a certain extent, so that the other party always has some sense of crisis and makes the other party more positive and enthusiastic about themselves. Women in China have always believed that loyalty is extremely important. No matter what purpose boys hold, it is shameful and intolerable. So why do so many girls accuse their ex-boyfriend of being love rat? Most of it also comes from this.

Two: when breaking up, ask the other party to return the gifts they gave before, and even take out the bill records of communication expenses and ask for money back.

A man who can do this kind of behavior is the best in my opinion. But in life, this kind of best man is common.

A few years ago, when my friend didn't know this man, he also made an appointment with a boy at home through a blind date and soon got engaged. But my friends never liked him, so I planned to be realistic and get married when the time was right. But in the end, I was stubborn and divorced under pressure. As a result, after the friend proposed to break off the marriage, the man directly issued a bill: "It is ok to break off the marriage. You first calculate the money I spent on you with you, and then compensate me for the loss of spirit and time. "

At that time, my friend was completely cheated as soon as he heard this. That man is very stingy. Every time he eats with me and comes to see my friend, he counts the transportation expenses. But later, my friend didn't say anything. I feel lucky that I didn't choose to marry such a person, and I readily borrowed some money from her father to dissolve my engagement.

Three: love haggle over every ounce, can't afford to joke.

A mature boy must have his own set of methods in dealing with people, and he can always resolve small contradictions in life well. And immature boys are always easy to magnify many small problems infinitely, and they are very haggle over every ounce for fear of being taken advantage of, and they are even more stingy and sensitive than girls. However, many stingy and sensitive boys are usually disliked by girls.

This kind of boys show a strong desire for control in love, but they often have no real ability to convince their girlfriends. They just play the temper blindly, let the other side listen to him, and do something seriously to force the other side to submit. It is undoubtedly very naive to be stingy, sensitive and controlling, especially to always use "threats" to force the other boys.

Four: When quarreling, you must win the other side.

In fact, I have a deep understanding of this. Many people in life have this problem, which seems to me to be a character defect.

I hope all love can have a happy ending. If not, I hope we can gain something in every love and live up to our love.